Extra pleasure or pain with large labia?

Just enjoy sex But make sure your foreplay is long and that you are horny. Try sucking and leaking instead of penetration. You may send ma a mail and what about some good photos og yous labia

Beth  
I have a girlfriend with a very tiny clit.The first time we got together i sucked it for a very long time.It grew to a size she could realy notice.She was so happy,I had to take photos she could not stop looking at.Every time we get together now we do the same and it now grows to a much larger size.I spend about 20min sucking and licking her pussy.She also has lovely large lips.I make sure that her lips are realy wet before any fore play.She has never mentioned any dscomford.  
Hope this helps.Fell free to E-mail me  
Regards

My girlfriend has very long thin rose petals, over 1.5 inches. We find it is more enjoyable for her if she gets very wet before penetration and spreads her juices on the outside of the petals, then she sticks them to her by spreading them outward, they now are out of the way for a while. It gives her a more "open" appearance which is very erotic to me as well.  Eventually they loosen with our motion and conform around me as I get wet from her which adds extra pleasure for both of us. If you are dry by nature try using KY on your petals, it works pretty well.

Beth,
Please read my reply to Liese, letter 2921.
Despite the popular belief that first-time sex is awesome, women usually don't enjoy sex at the beginning because it takes time to learn what feels good, and there is the expectation that the physical contact is going to magically feel good.  
Before I became sexually active I always heard how much enjoyable sex was so my first time I was expecting it to automatically feel good and when it didn't and actually hurt, I was very disappointed. After faking it the first couple of times, i thought I was either a lesbian or sexually dysfunctional. I couldn't relax and properly get aroused and sex was uncomfortable. It took me almost a year to learn to enjoy sex.

Beth,
My labia/clit are very sensitive too which can make oral sex kind of irritating at times.. It definately helps to get really really wet before doing anything ESPECIALLY penetration.. If my boyfriend tries to touch my clit before its wet, its like a really annoying pain... If youre comfortable enough with ur guy, ask him to like stroke your hood gently, between his finger and his thumb.. its a nice way to get nice n wet without irritating ur clit.. also.. it helps if you tell them to not focus on the same area for long periods of time..Like, start with the hood, then maybe pull on or suck on the lips and hood as a whole, then maybe one at a time and every so often lick or suck the clit.. then maybe some finger penetration.. Hm..that sounds really nice right about now actually...... Anyway..to sum it up, if youre experiencing pain/irriation on ur labia during sex or foreplay just have him switch it up  and not focus on the same spot for too long and remember to be wet first and if  you dry up try having him do something not so stimulating but that will still turn u on and get you wet again.. like sucking on ur inner thigh or nipples or something...

K,

Thanks for the extremely informative message.  You've given me and I suspect all appreciators of the female form some very good advice to not 'go like a bull at the gate' as the saying goes, straight for a ladies clit.  Excellent advice and suggestions - and more than a little hot too!  

What a great forum this site is - we all have something to learn here.

Thanks,

Rod.

Beth,

The ladies really gave you the perfect advice!

Try having your man lick your clit through the hood if it's too sensitive, as that will likely help in making you wet without irritating you (I just had sex with a woman recently who liked it this way too).

If he's going to use his hands to stimulate you before sex, have him wash his hands first (I find this helps too), and put some lotion on them (it'll help his hands to be a little "softer and smoother".) -- and then instead of diving right in, have him spread your lips, and maybe put a single finger inside you slowly, and then use the "moistness" from your pussy to stimulate your clit a little, and then repeat the process when the air dries his finger out a little.  I find the best way to do this is to have the woman sit on top of me with her legs spread open so I can put my hands on her and rub her thighs, her pussy and her whole body -- major turn on for me too and probably for your man as well since he won't be able to SEE your whole body since your back will be against him, but he'll be able to feel your body with his hands.  It's especially nice if you rest your head on his shoulder so he can kiss your neck and shoulders while he works magic on your body with his hands.  Eventually, if he does this right and for long enough you'll be VERY moist down there, and it'll start to feel really good.  Especially if he uses one hand maybe to rub the rest of your body, your nipples, and maybe your neck, and then uses the other hand to stimulate your clit and/or your labia.

And if you don't want him to lick your pussy, or like lots of foreplay before sex and prefer to get right into it, then make sure you use plenty of lubricant which you can buy over-the-counter from a local pharmacy.  There are even special kinds which make the sensation a bit different even.

Just make sure you enjoy yourself, and the wetness will likely come naturally, but if it doesn't there's nothing wrong with a little lubricant to help your already natural female lubricant.

- Eric

thank you so much for the replies everyone.
they were really helpful :)
i guess communication with my boyfriend will probably go a long way too.
i usually start off very wet but then it seems to dry up which confused me. i'm still quite novice to sex at the moment so i wasn't sure if this was normal.
it seemed because i had bigger lips, it seemed was harder to lubricate my entire vulva naturally. i guess i will have to...erm...keep working on it ;)