Am I normal... down there?

Sammy

May 18, 2010

I recently started doing research beacause I want to get a genital piercing... only to discover I don't fit pretty much any of the criteria. I talked to my boyfriend about it, and he said I "really don't have a hood, sweety." (Clitoral hood...) I'v tried looking it up to see if that's normal, but I can't find ANYTHING. I also have a very tiny, iny (as in like it doesn't poke out, even when I'm aroused) clit. I also have large major labia, but i don't think I have minor labia at all...  

Please help? This is really upsetting me.

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flicker

May 20, 2010

Don't fret Sammy,

I find large labia majora very sexy weather exposed or in a tight bikini or panties ... a cameltoe is hot!

You may not have as much inner lip to suck, but those plump outers will make you feel much tighter to your man ... you'll make him explode like now other.  Doggy is definitely the position to take to show off those gorgeous plump lips of yours.  I'd love to see them - feel free to send me a pic or two.

Flicker

Jack

May 21, 2010

Why do you want to get pierced? If it is because you think it will heighten your sexual pleasure you may want to think again. The ring will go through your labia not your clit. It may rub against your clit when you are making love, but from experience it doesn't add that much feeling for my partner. It seems to be more of a "in' thing along with tats. You are beautiful as nature made you. Love your petals, enjoy your clit and feel good about who you are. If you are being pressured to pierce by a boyfriend find another guy who likes you as you are.

Shawna

May 21, 2010

No offense Flicker but I am pretty sure that is not the answer she was looking for.... And I think people like this need to refrain from these types of comments when girls are looking for ACTUAL advice. But that is just my personal opinion.  

Sammy, there is nothing wrong with you. Just like lips, clits come in all shapes and sizes. If you are unsure if you can get your clit pierced you need to talk to your professional piercer and get him/her to give you a looksie to see what he can do. If you're clit is not large enough do not fret, you are still normal and by the way your boyfriend commented it seems like he does not mind at all. He seems very caring of you. :)

Eric

May 23, 2010

Sammy,

Yeah, I agree with Shawna (as usual!). . .

You're perfectly normal, but clits, clit hoods, and so on come in all shapes and sizes, and if one piercer told you he/she couldn't do it, I'd just go get a second opinion if I were you.

Also, keep in mind the research that you do online when it comes to what the criteria is for getting a specific piercing, will vary far and wide since people's bodies are all different, and so you should get a professional opinion from a professional piercer if you haven't done that already.

If your clit is too small, that shouldn't really be a concern, since you can probably pierce your labia or even an area just above your clitoral hood, and it would be just as sexy if you're doing it as a "fashion statement".

In the end, all we can give you here is advice -- you should definitely see a professional piercer though and get him/her to give you a professional opinion on whether or not your clitoral hood is large enough to pierce.

Also, give your boyfriend a high five for me for being so supportive! =0)

- Eric Gillette

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