Still having an issue with myself.

In need

September 15, 2010

My labia minora resembles pic 10 and as some may say I have a fat rabbit. My issue is that my husband only goes down on me maybe 4 times a year and it bothers me. I think its because he thinks its weird looking or maybe he just doesn't know how to please "it" lol. I have asked him if he didn't like it but he tells me its fine but when I gave him a threesome for his birthday he went down on the other girl like it was nothing and she had a "normal" looking vagina. That totally ruined my experience. I just don't know how to tell him that I want, no, that I need him to please me orally but I don't want to make him uncomfortable or to do something that he just really doesn't want to do.

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Micheal

September 16, 2010

Everyone has different tastes, with food and with pussy too. I have a few women over the years and they pretty much cover the whole labia spectrum. As far as pussy licking is concerned there wasn't much of a difference, that I can remember, so maybe it was the "new dish" effect, curiosity, rather than preference, with him and the girl.

What I do know is that the women with big labia were much better to look at. A gal I was married to for quite a while had a great looking juicy pouting pussy, sunbathing alongside her was fantastic. She got some great admiring looks too, made me really proud.

I think labia are a bit like penises, the big ones look good, but doesn't necessarily make much difference when it comes to the performace in the sack.

By the way didn't the girl go down on you?

Gerry Gillespie

September 19, 2010

Hello "In need"
Greetings to you from Toronto, Canada. I must say that I do sympathise with you. Since your husband showed such oral enthusiasm and spontaneity for the other girl's vulva, it is obvious that he has issues with yours.
It is my opinion that he is not orally attracted to yours, and is not being honest enough to admit this to you.
If your vulva resembles Pic 10, then it is certainly more attractive than the "normal" one possessed by the other girl, and you are definitely more blessed and gifted than she is.
It is unfortunate that your husband cannot recognise and appreciate the beauty between your legs.
There are many men, myself included, who would be happy to switch places with him.
You said he goes down on you about 4 times per year. If you were with me, I would go down on you about 4 times per DAY.
Perhaps you should give some consideration to checking out someone "on the side", who would only be too happy to give your very attractive pussy the undivided oral attention it so richly deserves.
If you are in or near Toronto, feel free to e-mail me. You won't regret it.
Cheers
Gerry

tempest_driver

September 20, 2010

In Need,

What I am about to say may not be what you want to hear, but it is the way I see it.

Let me ask you a couple of questions. how important is it to you that you get regular oral sex? And how important is it to you that your husband be the one that give it to you?

I agree with Michael that different tastes, but I vehemently disagree that pursues are pretty much the same when you're going down on one.

I love eating pussy, and i'll do it regardless of how it looks, but my favorites are the well endowed ones. And I get a spontaneous hardon thinking about eating a pussy that looks like pic10.

It seems obvious that your husband likes to eat pussy, why he goes down on a treasure like your pussy so seldom is a real  mystery to me, and in my opinion, especially after you've given him a threesome real selfish of him. I would start by asking him why he doesn't, and tell him you want him to eat you more. If he won't do it and it's important enough to you, give him an ultimatum. Either he does it, and does it a lot, or you'll find someone who will. Unfortunately you MAY have to go outside the marriage to find satisfaction, I recommend this site if you want to look for volunteers. If he has a problem with that, maybe he doesn't deserve a wife that will actually bring another woman into his bed.

just my opinion t_d

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