Lin
September 14, 2010
I was pleased to see this website...until I read the section on
"Sucking On Her Big Pussy Lips." (www.sexylabia.com/04_sucking-big-pussy-lips.htm)
This website's splashpage
claims to be combating a long-standing prejudice against women with
big pussy lips - but then it turns around and implies that if a man
doesn't like them, he must be gay?! Framing gay sexuality in an
accusatory manner is not only extremely offensive, but the way that
page presents human sexuality as a clear-cut gay-or-hetero binary is
also simply ignorant.
"A man who is comfortable with his
sexuality shouldn't be afraid to admit that he likes to take things
in his mouth during sex." YES.
"Either he is hetero and he likes
sucking on your pussy lips, clit and nipples, or he is gay and he
likes to suck dick instead." No.
A man is allowed to
have an aesthetic preference (isn't what this site is all about?)
without being labeled "gay." I'm sure the queer community would have
something to say about that.
Someone needs to re-write that.
Dear Lin,
Yes, you are right, that sentence is a bit exaggerated.
What I should have said is, "Either he is hetero and he likes sucking on your pussy lips, clit and nipples, or he is gay and he likes to suck dick instead, or he is bi-sexual to one degree or another and he likes to suck it all. Either way, most men like to somehow nibble and suck on their partner's body extremities during sex."
A man is surely allowed to have an aesthetic preference. I have mine, but that won't stop me from performing oral sex on a woman with a flat-vulva if we were to go horizontal. It's less fun, but fun it still is! And that makes me think something is wrong with a straight man who doesn't want to take his girl's big pussy in his mouth.
So for the last paragraph of that page I could have said the following. "Hint to women with large labia: if your guy doesn't enjoy going down on your big lips and (clean) vagina—and he isn't suffering from some psychological defect or trauma that causes him to dislike oral contact with a vulva—then he might be secretly sucking on something else while you're not around... whoops!"
tempest_driver
September 15, 2010
On the other hand, I am of the firm opinion that nine out of ten guys
wants to bury his face in the pussy of a well endowed woman, while
the tenth guy must surely want to bury his face in the crotch of one
of the other nine guys.
Anyone who doesn't love well endowed
women shouldn't be here. If you do like well endowed women, then come
on in, and Fuck what the other guys think.
Jessica
September 16, 2010
LMAO tempest. Loved the way you said it XD
Lin
September 18, 2010
Fantastic responses. <3
Jessica
September 22, 2010
Excuse me tempest_driver, but that is absolutely absurd!
As much
as I'd like to think all men like to as you say "bury his face in the
pussy of a well endowed woman" that would be completely unusual.
Seeing as in one of my posts someone argued a point that all men
have a preference, I would like to argue that point now and not all
men are gonna like large labia but on the other hand not all men are
gonna like small labia, everyone is different and just because you
are obsessed with large labia doesn't mean all men should be the
same.
You should cut men a bit of slack and not claim them to be
gay just because they have a preference, it's out of order.
You're right when you said a man that doesn't love a well endowed
woman shouldn't be here though I'll give you that.
tempest_driver
September 23, 2010
Well, you may be correct in arguing that not all men that prefer
small labia are gay, although i will stand firmly by my opinion that
they may want to consider at least kissing a cock, they may be in the
closet and not even realize it. In fact, most of the guys I've spoken
to who don't like endowed women, when I've asked have told me,
"She has a dick!" or something like that. Sorry to say it, but that
sounds like classic self-hating, closet homosexuality to me, so I
stand by my statement, which as usual is fully substantiated by my
own opinion. If you look back at my previous posts, the words may
have changed a little from time to time, but my opinion has remained
pretty consistent. If anything, I've only grown more devoted to
worshipping at the altar of the luscious labia.
XOXO t_d
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