A quote from my boyfriend (25) on what he thinks of vaginas :)

Jessica

September 3, 2010

"A vagina is just a vagina to me I can't say I love a particular type coz it's not a big deal to me what they look like, as long as they are clean and shaven that's all I'm bothered about lol. So in that case yours from what I've seen looks just fine to me"

Here's some proof ladies that not ALL men care about what you look like down there!

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chuck

September 5, 2010

Jessica,
It's interesting that your boyfriend has no preference in terms of how a woman's genitals appear. I have done some research concerning this and the results indicate that the men who could care less about how a woman's genitals appear are interested in just one thing--to get in and have a quick ejaculation. On the other hand, those men who really have strong preferences in term of genital appearance; i.e., long and protruding labia, large clitoris and clitoral hood, or even just a vaginal cleft--these guys really care about their women and they also care about being certain their women achieve erotic orgasms. Based on my research, it appears that your boyfriend fits the first category and is not particularly interested in your satisfaction in terms of sharing in sexual intimacy.
Chuck

Jessica

September 6, 2010

Well Chuck :)
You not knowing me or my boyfriend can not put forward such a strong opinion on this, research means buggar all to me.
I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and can assure you he cares very much about me and me having an orgasm, we often discuss our needs and desires and fulfill them for eachother.
He also just doesn't care about "one thing", we often just have cuddley time instead of sex.
So thanks for this probably most likely invalid research, but I know me and my boyfriend and you do not.
Jessica.

girlygirl

September 8, 2010

Sorry Jessica but I agree with Chuck...I understand why u might get a little defensive, but he has a very valid point.

Jessica

September 10, 2010

I don't mind at all to be honest :)
I got go into deep discussion about my sex life and then you would see he cares about my wants and needs, but I'd rather keep it private but yeah please if anyone has an opinion on it then feel free cos I find it rather funny.

DarkRomantic

September 14, 2010

Chuck,  

that is RIDICULOUS. Please present us with VALID information not some bull crap you got off the top of your head. How is it BAD to not care about what a woman's vagina looks like? Maybe Jessica's man doesn't sit around watching porn all day and googling "vagina" and making preferences. Maybe he actually has a life and enjoys his woman, regardless of the appearance of her vagina.

You make it seem as if it's BETTER for a man to like protruding labia, but how would that be fair to a girl born with small labia? It's not like women with small labia or a large labia are SUPERIOR to other women.

What you said is RIDICULOUS. Just because you sit at home looking at endless pictures of vaginas and making strong opinions on them wouldn't make you more CARING, it would just make you that much more of an asshole when you discover that the girl you're undressing has a vagina unlike the one you soooo dearly desire and prefer.

I'm pretty sure that Jessica's boyfriend meant that he likes her vagina any way it is, which is very kind... NOT that he doesn't give a crap about her and she could have a mutant alien's head down there as long as she lets him have sex with her.

I can't believe how idiotically ignorant people are. Yeah "RESEARCH SAYS". Spend a night with every single couple in the world studying the appearance of the vagina in accordance to how much the man cares about the woman, and THEN give me this "research says" bullshit.

Jessica

September 15, 2010

Thank you DarkRomantic!

You've said most of the stuff I've thought but haven't been able to put into words.
Some people don't have a clue, "research" doesn't make up the whole effing world, I'd like a link to this "research" to see why he thinks it's so correct.
I did some "research" of my own and came accross forums like yahoo ones with girls asking mens opinions on large labia and what they prefer and d'ya know what!? most of the men said THEY DON'T CARE! well shoot me down, what is the world coming to eh chuck. Also, some of these men were married and giving their opinion on it and guess what THEY DON'T CARE, so clearly they don't care about their wives? If you'd like a link to countless forums with men saying they don't care then I'll happily oblige.
Some men are just happy to have a girlfriend and the fact me and my boyfriend waited at least a month maybe over to have sex has gotta tell you he doesn't only care about one thing!
Get a life and stop looking at pussys all day, I was simply trying to make girls who was once like me feel better and you've ruined that with your sh**ty research theory.

tempest_driver

September 15, 2010

Dark Romantic, you've only made a few submissions in the past several months, and you seem to be even more bitter than the last time. the last time you wrote in both Labi an I suggested that you may need to speak to a professional. You obviously have not heeded this advice, and it seems chatting you get much more bitter and angry at men you'll soon have a house full of cats.

What chuck said may have been a little abrasive, and it was likely not the thing that needed to be said, but I'm a man, and I know my own attitude, and for about the past 25 years I have been having sex, as have most of my friends.  And I've noticed that of all of the friends that I've talked pussy with, almost all of the guys who actually like pussy, have had a very strong opinion of what they like in a pussy. There are a few who really don't care what it looks like as long as they're getting some, but those guys are rare, and in my opinion, there heterosexuality is often questionable. And no man who is with a woman he loves is going to tell her that her pussy in unattractive to him.

Whatever the case may be, a man can be counted on to have a preference of what his perfect pussy looks like, If I had my way, they'd all look like Honey's or Dominika's. But I also recognize that pussies like theirs are rare, and loving pussy like I do, I won't turn any of them away just because the labia aren't my Ideal.

A real man considers the pussy he's eating to be the most beautiful one in the world.

Alyssa

October 8, 2010

^^ I agree with Dark Romantic. Tempest driver, you can't just assume that Jessica's boyfriend has been sleeping with women for 25 years like you........Don't be jealous that he found a girl he loves already and you're still hanging around single, hitting up this site and reading posts of young 14-19 year old girls with descriptions of their vaginas. Go out to a middle-age crisis club sometime and meet someone your own age, hopefully someone to distract you from your unhealthy obsession with vaginas........ perhaps jessica's man is a normal young guy who hasn't slept with 100 different broads, and is happy with any vagina he gets, because he's the kind of guy that looks at the woman's face and entire body, instead of just fixating on her genitals.

tempest_driver

October 23, 2010

Alyssa,

Well have our opinions, your opinion of me seems to be that the time spent here, expressing my love of women in general, and of pussy in particular. Helping women of all ages feel better about themselves and view their luscious labia as a blessing and not a curse. For some reason this makes me some sort of lonely pedohile pervert in your eyes.

In truth, I have been married for nearly 20 years to a womanwho has one of the most beautiful pussies i've ever seen, and the tastiest I've ever eaten.

it is my opinion that all pussy is beautiful, even one belonging to someone as bitter and hateful as you.

It's also my opinion that men as a rule are pretty passionate about their particular flavor of genitalia. A guy that doesn't love pussy, preferably pussy with big thick labia, must yearn to wrap their lips around a big thick cock.

Shawna

October 26, 2010

Just throwing it out there because I think that is probably very wrong. But all of my ex's and guy friends all said that a vag is a vag but none of them really like the appearance of any. I had this guy I was seeing absolutely LOVE my vag, loved the smell, loved the taste, and he loved how it looked. He was the only guy I have ever met that actually enjoyed it. What does that tell you about every guy in my life???

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