The Irony of It All

Frank Lyons

July 26, 2010

Censors only allow pictures to be published of women with small or airbrushed labia because larger labia are considered too sexually stimulating.

People then only seeing small labia in the mainstream media are brainwashed into believing that small labia are sexy.

Opportunist mutilators of women play on women's (and girls) insecurities for profit, profit and more profit.

Women/girls have their sexually stimulating vulvas mutilated and are made into sexless entities.

I am of the opinion that the mutilated women cope with their loss in one of three ways:

1) They tell everyone that it was the best thing that ever happened to them and that everything is now great and try to convince others to get it done.   This selfish women wants others to suffer like they have, because misery loves company and they don't want to feel like the only fool.  
2) They try to rationalize how it kind of made sense for them to have themselves mutilated into a sexless entity. These women will have the hardest time of it, since they aren't deluding themselves that it was great and aren't grasping the reality of what they have done to themselves.  See sad story below.  
3) They realize what they did was foolish, realize what they have lost and try to warn other women not to fall for the same con.  These women are the unfortunate victims who have the heroic strength to warn others, move on and make the best of a bad situation.

The sad story of a woman who falls into category two (one of the responses At URL: womensmediacenter.com/blog/2010/02/cosmetic-vaginal-surgeons-clueless/comment-page-1/):   Posted May 19, 2010 at 3:20 am
 
I had labiaplasty with a clitoral hood reduction, I was 19 at the time.
My labia was huge, in my opinion, as it stuck well below where I thought it should. It hurt to ride a bike, walk in jeans, cross my legs, my underwear would always slide over to one side, leaving me uncovered. Not to mention because it stuck out and was constantly rubbing against my clothes I had to wear a tampon when I was not on my period or else my underwear would get wet and it was extremely uncomfortable. It caused sex to be on my mind 24/7 though I was not sexually active.
Besides this, I felt like it was so ugly like there was a hump where there shouldn't be. When I would wear pants I was so self conscious because I assumed that was where everyone was looking, especially when wearing a bikini.
I could never concentrate as I was always in pain or uncomfortable.
The hood also came out so far I felt like a boy. I had never had sex so I didn't understand how I could get any pleasure from having sex when it hung so low and far away from my vagina. Instead my mind wandered towards women (I don't like nor am I attracted to women) but it got pleasure from friction, which men cannot provide.
I was able to please myself and the sensation was unbelievable and incredible.
Finally, I went into my dad's room crying because I could not understand what was wrong with me. I told him I felt like a boy, how I didn't understand why in my spinning class I was in soo much pain while all the other women were not.  

A long time ago a female obgyn said some men like larger labia, but i didn't like it so I pushed my dad to take me to see the dr. who had performed the surgery on tv.
I had the operation and for months was EXTREMELY sexually frusterated. It felt bent and like the feeling couldn't go all the way through. I HATED it. The night before my surgery though I thought this could be the last time I can make myself feel this good. And I was right, but at the time I didn't care I just wanted it gone, cut, flat.
Eventually it stopped feeling bent and loosened a bit. It hasn't felt the same and will never feel the same. I have a boyfriend now who I am sexually active with and think how much I wish I hadn't gotten the surgery because I know he would be able to please me the way the OBGYN was trying to tell me from the beginning. It bothers me.
But at the same time, I can wear whatever I want, my underwear stays intact, I can be at work speaking to customers and not thinking about how much pain I am in down there because the trim on my loose fitting slacks are too tight. I don't constantly have to  fix  myself. it's nice.
So I don't know.
Yes I believe the doctors have NO clue about sexual stimulation from a woman. A clit being open and close to the vagina just gets irritated during intercourse and feels raw. Though I was told it makes for better sex. I don't have much sensation in my labia now I don't really like for it to be touched, it is more painful than pleasurable. Whereas before it was the complete opposite.  For my sexual life I regret the surgery. For my educational, professional, and life besides being turned on or horny, I do not.

I am posting this since I don't want any more women falling into any of these three categories.

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