my boyfriend doesn't know how to touch me!

tina

July 16, 2010

Okay so I have a new boyfriend who I really like, and find really sexy... but when it comes to my vag, he just stumbles about and doesnt know what to do. For instance the last few times he has tried to touch me, he vigourously rubs the top of my leg next to my lips (which is really sore!) and he cant seem to understand that he has to open my lips to get inside me!...and  he has left me with a big rash.

I don't know how to tell him he's doing it wrong without sounding rude! and everytime i put my hand down to help him out he takes his hand away as if he thinks i dont want him to touch me :(

Plus - we have been going out for about 2 months, and he still hasn't went down on me for some reason :(... and I don't know how to get him to do that!

I'm sick of not having pleasure!

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tempest_driver

July 17, 2010

Tina,

Your problem sounds a lot like Anna's problem from last month, (see post # 2987). And the root of your problem is simply your boyfriend's inexperience.
Fucking is a natural act, giving pleasure is not. You are correct in trying to guide him in touching you, but you're going to need to build his confidence too.

Let him know how hot he makes you, and how much you want him to touch you, but that he needs to be more gentle. When he pulls his hand away, take him by the hand and put it back on you. if you want him to touch your pussy but you aren't wet enough for it to feel good yet, YOU lick his fingers to show him that he cant touch you there while everything is still dry and have it feel good.

And when you want him to go down on you, tell him to go down on you. Then guide him on how to do it right.

Be gentle, and be patient with the lad when you want to fix how he's doing it. And when he does it right be loud and dirty. Soon we'll be peeling you off the ceiling.

XOXOt_d

Ann McNutt

July 17, 2010

he obviously dont now what to do - he need guidance or gettin rid of. . if you want lickin tellim so personaly i like nothin better than goin down

nauvooman

July 17, 2010

You need to show and tell him what you want and like. Some guys need direction so that they are not so rough. When he puts his hand on you whisper to him: softer, a little higher, a little lower etc. Sometimes guys get so excited that they think harder is better for you too. So just tell him to be gentler. And ask him to go down on you, maybe he has never done that or doesn't know if you will like it or not. Great sex requires communication on both sides. It's OK to let him know to be gentler and maybe some flavored or scented oil would help too. Hope this helps. Dave

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