I'm scared my boyfriend thinks my labia is horrible!

Anna,

I reallyythink you have a golden opportunity here. The fact that your boyfriend has been stumbling around your pussy like he needs a roadmap and a flashlight most likely has less to do with your geography than with his level of experience. The fact that he's so grateful for the pussy only proves my point.

Take this kid under your wing so to speak, show him what you like and what you don't teach him to be a good lover. If you want him to go down on you, make him go down on you and make him good at it. And if he comments on your pussy not looking like a porn or playboy pussy, educate him on that too.  

Believe me, if you think he's grateful now...Haveng a lady show himmthe ropes is very likely to be a dream come true for him.

XOXO t_d

I had to laugh, reading your message. I've definitely been there, done that! That TRULY sucks when a guy has no idea how to open up our lips eh?! But you don't need to feel bad.....I bet HE feels a complete idiot that he has no idea how to deal with your big labia!! The best is really just to do what you did, take his hand and guide him. He'll be relieved and you don't have to feel frustrated or embarrassed. He'll soon learn.  

OK, one of the best thing about having juicy long lips is that they look great around a man's cock. So if you want to give your boyfriend his jollies, then definitely try out sitting on top and facing the other way. ( Backwards cowgirl??) Once he sees that, he'll be stuck on big lips forever. Basically any position where he gets a good view of what's going on is brilliant and then you'll never need to feel insecure about your butterfly lips ever again! He'll be hooked.  

I like to remove only hair from my outer lips and bikini line. Shaving sucks cos the hair just grows back stubbly and faster. Waxing is brilliant but I come out bruised!! So as weird as this sounds, I pluck my hair out with tweezers. I actually find it quite entertaining. Plus my skin is then smooth like a baby. It completely freaks my husband out but he certainly loves the results!!

Anna
I know that more men like large lips than those who dont.I can't recall one that ever said they dont.Smooth is very sexy,so try smooth for a while.I like pussy smooth,but sometimes snjoy a muff in the bush.Whatever you like is good just keep it neat.
Regards

Oh Amanda, that is so cruel, now you've got me imagining...

I know you like to keep your anonymity, but is there a picture on this site that is close?

Philip

Hi Philip,

So funny to find you here! I was just checking to see if anybody else gave poor Anna some advice and I find you here!

So. After much looking in the mirror and comparing my vulva with the photos ....this is serious business you know....I'd have to say picture nr. 26. Lovely don't you think?  

My heart bleeds for the young women who write here and don't love their sexual parts. There's nothing more sensual.

Amanda, 26 eh? In that case, more beautiful than I'd imagined...  ; )

As for Anna, I'd say - just go for it babe. If you want him to perform oral on you - let him do it...
It is sooooo much fun opening a girls lips softly with your tongue.  

If he hasn't commented negatively on your beautiful lips, I honestly think he's taking the cue from you...you seem to want to hide them, he's not gonna force the issue. He may be so happy to be with you that he doesn't want to jeopardise what he has, especially if you seem to be shy over the matter...

There's really only one way to find out...straddle him, rub yourself accross him a few times & then work your way up his body until you have left the matter in his face where he can't ignore it... : )

Hey its Anna again,

My boyfriend is away at Glastonbury just now so I've not seen him in ages! So we have been kinda doing the dirty texting thing and by the sounds of it he can't wait to get into my pants! So, bugger it I suppose.. Its just a vag, right? I don't think he even really cares... and I'm dying for oral anyway.. I hate having sex and not having the guy go down on me so I'm just going to have to force him!!  

Who really cares at the end of the day..  
Thanks for all your advice!  
:P x

Amanda,

If your pussy looks anything like #26 you are truly blessed with a remarkable pussy indeed. And anyone who gets to enjoy such a pussy is truly a rich man(or woman).

I know it is unlikely, but if you ever feel like sharing, please keep me in your thoughts.

XOXO t_d

Anna,

Again. . .Tempest beat me to it!

But yeah, kick some ass. . .put his face between your legs, and then enjoy the results.

If you're happy. . .wash, rinse, repeat. =0)

- Eric

My Dear Anna,

It takes a real man to truly appreciate a womens healthy labia, maybe your boyfriend just does not know his way around a candy  box with so many treats. If you look like pic#26 than i would lick you from your rooter to your tooter until you climax multiple times and then seal the deal with my man pole. If you care to send some pics, please do!!!