Embarrassed

"two inches"  WOW... I would rather meet someone like you than win the lottery !!!!!!!!!!  in fact in my book you have !!!!!!

Mr "S"   put this on them "X"

you shouldn't feel ashamed, not that I'm one to talk since I have my days.. but I realized I could never get surgery even if I wanted to, I would be ashamed of myself. ( I'm 19 haven't had sex)

I try to look at it this way, even though I'm not completely comfortable with it I think of it as something special for someone else ( my partner) if I find someone who loves it I will too.

I don't really care about what anyone else thinks, and who's the one to decide what a "normal" labia should look like?

Normal is such a lame word it has no real meaning.

I'm glad you're starting to feel better about your body. It's really a shame that women are made to feel so bad about their bodies, while we men admire their beauty so much.

I'm sure you'll read many admonitions here not to worry about what your hypothetical boyfriend might think about your labia, but I might as well add mine: If he has any sexual attraction to women at all, he'll probably think that your vulva is beautiful.

I think every heterosexual woman deserves a boyfriend or husband who thinks that her vulva is beautiful (and is willing to tell her as much), and you shouldn't settle for anything less.

I was exactly like you Linda, but seriously I know it's not so simple these days but you just need to find the right guy who loves you for you, not the size of your labia.

Dear Linda,
I found your letter like so many others on here from young girls very sad n a reflection of how I used to feel, there was no internet in the 80s an I was too embarrassed to go the the Doctor...My 1st boyfriend made me like that..  
I was 17 n a virgin he was 19.  He thought I was abnormal, a freak, he refused to touch any part of my
pussy so no foreplay well for me, he even started referring to them as Saddlebags or Spaniel Ears n would whenever possible bring up Saddlebags or Spaniels in conversations when we were out mostly with mates just for a "laugh".... He didnt last long lol....
For a long while after splitting with him I would only let men touch me through my panties n oral sex was a definite NO but then I met a man who was 36, I was 18 at the time and on the very 1st night we had sex he told me not to be ashamed or embarrassed, its all just shapes n sizes, some men have large dicks, some small, some women have large breasts while some are totally flat chested, tall short, fat thin, etc... I felt released, as I slowly realised what he was saying was true an Ive never looked back....
My daughter came to me a few years ago in floods of tears after a boyfriend (Grrrrr 1st boyfriends) commented on her labia n then dumped her because of them and I told her what Id been told, Shapes n Sizes...
Be confident n be assurred that havin large lips is more of a Turn On than a Turn Off...
I hope Ive helped, lots of love

Red xx

there are alot of girls like you but you are beautiful honey 2in of an amazing blessing you need to be proud. i have had mine called some horrible names and it hurt. but god never makes mistakes. there are plenty men and women who love bigger downstair lips so hold you head high and be proud you are sexy. so please dont cut off such a beautiful thing

hey linda
im 17 years old too lol im a guy who loves big lips and im about to b a senior in highschool but that besides the point youre beautiful for wat u r n dont believe wat anyone else says bout being out of the "norm"

and muah
ur 19 and a virgin which is a completely diferent but amazing rarity lol lke i sed im 17 and almost all the girls i no are not virgins by a long shot so b proud of that as well as ur long full lips

take care girls steve

Honey don't ever ever EVER be ashamed of your most beautiful gift from god!!! I would kill to have a GF with 2 inch labia. You know how they say that black is the new white! Well Beautiful meaty gorgeous beautiful sexy amazing labia is the new pussy!!!! Anyone who judges that hasn't been with a girl with gorgeous labia hasn't lived. There is nothing better than seeing a beautiful girl across the club sharing a monent where your eyes can  not part walking up to her without even saying a word and kissing her passionatly before taking her home and kissing every inch of her body before going down on her to find she has the most gorgeous thick meaty beautiful gorgeous 2 inch long labia and taking those gorgeous lips into your mouth and suking on them and flicking your hot wet tongue across there clit before licking sucking nibbling on there labia once again..........OMFG i have just got myslef all worked up......So girl moral of my story is you should be proud of your assetts cause my god i would crawl ova broken glass to suck on your 2 inch long labia hell i would even walk on hot coals to lick and suck and play with your gorgeous labia.