Just a sexual related question.

If your boyfriend doesn't worry about the fact that he doesn't always ejaculate, then neither should you. What's important is whether you're both enjoying yourselves, and it sounds like you are.

I'm sure that a man who has sufficient control over his PC muscles can restrain his ejaculations even when he has an orgasm, and it's possible that that's what your boyfriend is doing.

I hate to bring it up, but it's also possible that he isn't having orgasms, but he doesn't want to hurt your feelings by admitting it. On the off-chance that this is true, I'd reassure him that it doesn't matter if he has an orgasm or not, as long as he is having fun. After all, you don't need to have an orgasm to have fun. Even though he does sometimes ejaculate, I'm sure he'd appreciate not being under pressure to perform.

So, to reiterate, he doesn't sound too worried that he doesn't ejaculate every time you have sex, so it shouldn't worry you either. And it certainly doesn't reflect badly on your performance when he doesn't ejaculate.

Anonymous,

Yes, although it is rare, guys can orgasm without ejaculating. Guys who have this ability, in my opinion, are lucky. For me, ejaculation means that the fun is over, to be able to orgasm without ejaculation would be great. It is also possible that h just has a problem ejaculating. this is not a reflectoin on you, it just means he has an issue with self confidence. If this is the case, you need to stop nagging him about it. If he tells you he enjoyed it, he did, try asking him what you do that he really likes, and what he'd like you to do that you don't. If you enjoyed it, tell him you did, and tell him what specifically you enjoyed about it. Bottom line, you sound like he's seeing to your needs. I think that many of the ladies on this site will tell you that this is much less common than it ought to be, enjoy the man and make sure he knows how much.

On the subject of cumming in little bits. All men dribble a little, it's called precum, and it adds to your  ubrication during sex. Play with it, lick it up, do what you wish with it, but keep in mind that precum is still cum, and it can get you pregnant.  

And no, he is not ejaculating to appease you. When he does ejaculate, assume that it's because you did a good job, and show him how much you love him and the gift.

Just my opinion,  t_d

Question #1: Does he have hard erections or limp ones ?

Question #2: If it is on the limp side, does he have low blood pressure or high blood pressure?

Ummm, kinda yes to everything I guess...

Guys can do that, girls do feel bad about it sometimes...

All I can say is that personally I generally last a long time before
I can come, & even though the process feels great for me, my
partners in the past have sometimes had the same feelings of
inadequacy which you're expressing...

There's not really much to add, except to say that if he's lasting
for ages - it'll extend the time you can make love & both feel
the joy inherent in that act. I he says he's enjoying himself, just
go with that - believe & trust your partner, rather than doubting
both yourself & him... You're not crap in bed, get over it.  :)

Thanks guys :)
It's just that I was looking everywhere to find if it was possible and I couldn't!
Labialover, he mainly has hard erections, the only time he has limp ones is if there is someone in the bathroom next door and ir puts him off cos he knows it's his sister or something lol. He does have high blood pressure though which isn't good at his age!
Philip, he doesn't really last for ages though, but he doesn't last a short time either. Sometimes he'll finish and it looks like he's had an orgasm by the way he's panting and what have you, but then I'm there thinking "where's the cum" which is really bad of me I know but I can't help it.
But thanks a lot for your answers people :)

I've heard of men having orgasms but not ejaculating, I'm the opposite, I can cum without having the full orgasm.. no real benefit to it, just kinda funny. It does relieve some pressure without the being finished feeling.