Don't touch me there...

I have noticed an annoying sensation when my boyfriend touches just below my clitoris, but.... for some reason when he licks me there.. it feels really good. Just below the clitoris is the urethral opening (where you pee from) kind of gross but whatever.. If its bothering you, it could just be normal, or possibly you have like an inflamed urethral opening or a urinary tract infecttion... Or like i said.. it might just be something you dont like. We all have our preferences..

There is a condition which was talked about on Dr Oz, where the area around your vagina can be painful. There are a variety of things that can be done if it is, & if it's not just the fact that you don't like it. (Which is perfectly fine also - each to their own you know.)
I suggest you check out the Dr Oz site for some answers. I'd give you the name of the condition, but I can't remember it...

I HATE having my clitoris directly touched. Only on the top, through the hood please. Anything else is just hideously painful I'm so sensitive. Even having a nice tongue directly on my clitoris isn't very pleasant. Sucking is the best. YAY for sucking!! I have no problems with attention to my lips though. I can't imagine how that could be uncomfortable? I think you must be only talking about the place directly under the clitoris between the lips and not the lips themselves?  

Aah the poor males. Just when they think they've sussed out how to be a pleasure genius, they get a new girlfriend and have to start from scratch!

Don't worry Amanda - you're not alone.

Many, many woman don't like direct stimulation of their clitoris, but rather something gentle through the hood... I even read one study where they went so far as to say that the larger percentage of women preferred the right side being stimulated rather than the left.

I do however love what you mentioned & enjoy making my lips into a tiny version of the vagina & gently sucking a clitorus back & forth like a tiny penis...that seems to work well for some...plus I get a kick out of the pleasure I'm giving.

I think it all comes down to the fact that their are as many likes & dislikes as their are people on the planet, so we've all got to put the effort in anew with a partner who is different from what has gone before.

philip

Being the  devotee that I am of that mighty organ, The Clitoris, I can say that, like the saxophone which I actually do play, it just takes practice, practice, practice and patience.  But mainly it takes true love and devotion to the instrument you play!!  And listen to your teacher.  Do your homework.

There is no sound more pleasing to my ears than the sound of a clitoris being well played.  Especially when I am doing the playing.

Orgasm in A major  recorded by the Labi Amore Quartet is sublime.  Its on the ERATO label.

Good listening everyone.

PS If there is a woman in Edmonton Alberta that is in serious need of music therapy, please leave a note.  No pun intended.

Ron