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Thank you, can't get enough beautiful labia!

It is indeed most gratifing that you think of us 'K' thankyou so much.

Mr "S"

k,

Thank you for bringing this new website to our attention, I will check it out when I have a few moments.

But I think I'd be more excited if I was able to get a peek at yours.

Oh yeah, and Emily's.

What d'ya think Eric?  

;-D t_d

K, Thanks for the tip.  Beautiful photos are always appreciated.  I really like their line in the introduction, "Viva la vulva".

Full support for tempest_driver's comments!

Tempest. . .

I've been trying to get a peek at K's little butterfly for ages now. . .hopefully she'll cave in under the pressure now of more than one of us trying to get a peek at it, and finally send some pics away!

K??  Whaddya think babe?!? =0)

Ha..... iiiii dunno guys..... At this point, i think the main thing keeping me from doing it, is that it feels dishonest and unfair towards my boyfriend... I wouldnt want him sending nude pics and talking about sex with other girls online... That, and im scared that somehow its going to get out in cyberspace and end up on some porn website or freak of nature website or something... i know, im paranoid.

We can hope it to be true.

If she's got me drooling already and you've been chipping away at her for awhile, you must but going crazy by now

Well. . .

I'm not going crazy per se, as I usually have enough pussy around to entertain me for decades to come, but K is a bit mysterious, and I think that has piqued my interest even further.

K. . .

While I can certainly understand your argument about the boyfriend, and being dishonest -- why don't you just tell him then!  Is he a prude or something??  Will he not get that you a part of a "community" online, and that people share their intimacies blatantly, and care-free with each other in that community??  Invite him to be part of it. . .unless this is the same clown that you mention in your other thread (msg2612_little-community.htm) where you said he makes you feel uncomfortable about it -- we wouldn't want him around.

But all in all, you've already been dishonest with him by not letting him know how you truly feel, so it sounds like you're choosing when to be honest and when to be dishonest as it serves you best, and that's fine.  I'm just pointing out what is.  Now, in all reality, "sending nude pics and talking about sex with other girls online" is a stark contrast to what this site is all about.  Wouldn't you agree?  We've filled in for you where he hasn't, simply by pointing out to you (without even seeing what you have), that it is nothing to be ashamed of, and that you should be proud if anything, while he continues to make you feel "depressed" in your own words (msg2612_little-community.htm).  First we talk about sex jokingly on here (for the most part anyway -- I'm serious about the things I say about 98% of the time, and I think Tempest is too), and it's all in contrast to what the main purpose of the site is: to make you feel good about yourself as a woman and be proud of the way your labia lips look (and the hood that you say "feels like a penis" which I'm sure is a MAJOR exaggeration, and everything else about your pussy).

Now, if you'd have just said, I don't want my pictures to get out on the internet, that would've been a much better excuse for me, instead of the "boyfriend card".  You could have even said, I'm shy, and don't feel comfortable sending pics yet.  Anything but the "boyfriend card", because you and I both know that excuse is nonsense based on what's been built here.  Nonetheless, I think that the other guys on this site as well as myself have all demonstrated where our loyalties lie -- and that is to the women on this site and community that this site represents.  So it sounds to me like I'm hearing you say that you don't trust us, even though we've demonstrated many times over that our loyalty lies here with you, the other women on this site, and this community we've built, which you raved about in the same thread from above.  If I was truly interested in having your pictures posted on porn sites (or "freak of nature" websites as you put it), I wouldn't be a member of this site -- I'd be a member of the "freak of nature" website. =0)

Anyway, K, we respect your decision either way, and accept you no matter what -- even though we can hope you'd change your mind! =0)

- Eric

Eric,
I was thinking pretty much the same thing, but was unsure exactly how to go about putting it into words. I agree whole heartedly.

And yes, I am completely serious pretty much most of the time. I am passionate about pussy. especially pussy I can really dig into and get lost in.

Ok well... for starters.. Im not "playing the boyfriend card".. i genuinely dont think its right to send nude pics of myself to other men while im in a relationship....  Oh, and i DID say that i dont want my pictures to get out on the internet. I dont feel like ive been dishonest with him at all.... I dont tell him exactly how insecure about it i am just because its a topic that makes me uncomfortable so why would i put myself in an uncomfortable situation??  I know he would just say " You have nothing to be insecure about.. you're perfect the way you are".. and then i would just doubt his sincerity in saying that....because thats what i do. My boyfriend doesnt say or do things that make me feel uncomfortable... he never TRIES to make me feel uncomfortable about it.. i just know because of comments he made before we ever messed around,  that prefers smaller labia... so knowing that in the back of my mind, makes me feel uncomfortable.. but hes never intentionally hurt me... I dont why you and tempest think he's such a bad guy..

K,

For the record, I do not think your boyfriend is a bad guy, I'm just saying that I would not leave any doubt in the mind of my woman how I feel about her and her pussy -- anything short of that is just not good enough as far as I'm concerned, and I'm sure Tempest will agree.

So that said, it's not that we don't like him, it's just that I think he has some work to do in order to make you feel the way you should, and let me just say. . .one man is very capable of doing the work of many in some cases.  If he had done that, I highly doubt you'd be on this website anymore, and if you were, it would be for the sole purpose of helping other women -- you wouldn't have as many complaints as you do.  Have I made my point??

Moving forward, you did say you didn't want your pictures to get out on the internet -- sure.  But then I think you missed the part where I said, that if you can't trust us -- the people here who have made you feel good even where your own boyfriend has slacked a bit (in your own words), who CAN you trust?

And I don't mean to sound rude, but saying that he never TRIES to make you feel uncomfortable about it just simply is not the same thing as making an active effort to make you feel good about it.

That's like saying that because he hasn't intentionally made you feel uncomfortable that the fact that you do is perfectly okay.

It's hard to see the box when you're inside it. . .as a 3rd party I can see the box from the outside, and therefore it's easier for me to see that there is definitely something deeper that is going on between you and him (or maybe just you, since you seem to doubt what he tells you) that needs to be addressed.

Anyway, you know that at the end of the day, this is the ONE place you can be yourself, and say how you truly feel -- even if you don't think you can do that with your boyfriend.  While you say that you don't feel like you've been dishonest with him, I feel like if you haven't told him EXACTLY how you feel, than in a sense you have intentionally "left things out" that he should know about.

Just my 3 cents K, and I know it's not always good. . .but it is always true. =0)

- Eric

K,

I'm really beginning to wonder what's up.

You tell us how much your boyfriend has hurt you, which only serves to piss us off at him. But you say he's not a bad guy.

you have self image issues, which I truly hope that we've helped you with. But these are issues that you're unable to talk to your boyfriend with. but you'll open up to complete strangers. We've read enough descriptions of your pussy from you, that I have a pretty good idea what I think your pussy looks like, just from your descriptions.  

Meanwhile this guy, who has stepped all over your feelings, unintentionally of course, is getting to enjoy what has to be an absolutely phenomenal pussy, which many of us doubt whether or not he really deserves. Not because we necessarily think he's a shitbag. But because we doubt the very foundation of the entire relationship.

And the people who've probably committed several hours apiece don't even get a peak because you think it would be dishonest to send photos to other men while you're in a relationship.

I think it's time to be honest K.  At least with yourself and him. If not with us.

Tempest... I dont think you get it. You clearly think you know way more about my relationship than you do for you to doubt "the very foundation" of my relationship.. He hasnt "Stepped all over my feelings". Hes said a couple things that let me know that he prefers small labia, and yes, that sucks, but he didnt know at the time that i have big labia. And its not like i tried to make him out to be a bad guy, then turned around and defended him.. I said from the beginning that hes never intentionally hurt me and that my issue is my self esteem, not him. Like ive said before on here, I did tell him one time that i dont like the appearance of my labia, i didnt let on a what a big deal it is to me, but i did mention it.. and he told me that my pussy it hot and that he could show me plenty of hot porn stars with pussies like mine... BUT.. .Like i said before.. it doesnt matter how many times he compliments me, my mind always goes back to the same thing.. its ugly, and painful, and annoying, and i hate it. I dont appreciate your condecending remark about "I think its time to be honest K. At least with yourself and him. If not with us". I AM honest with myself, ive been more than open with all of you, and maybe i dont tell my boyfriend the extent of my insecurities, but that doesnt make me dishonest with him by any means. I dont really see what you think im going to gain by telling  him how insecure i am about it... I dont want it to be a bigger issue in my life than it already is. I'd rather pretend like im confident in my body when im around him.  And in doing that, its build my confidence little by little. Oh, and then for you to say "And the people who've probably committed several hours apiece don't even get a peak because you think it would be dishonest to send photos to other men while you're in a relationship" ... First of all, you are NOT obligated to respond to me or anybody else on here, and none of us girls are obligated or should be made to feel obligated  to send pics as a way to thank you for your time and
effort.... And if you thought that saying that was going to make me send pics or feel bad for not sending pics.. think again. I stand by what i said before that im not comfortable sending pics to other men while im in a relationship because i dont think its right... and thats NO BULLSHIT.  

Now Eric... You're approach was a little less "Cocky-Know-It-All" so i'll be a little nicer to you... I understand what you're saying about not leaving a doubt in ur girlfriends mind about how you feel about her pussy, but like ive  said many times before, my boyfriend compliments me all the time.. In his mind, he's doing just that. And actually, little by little, he is helping me to feel better about myself bc he compliments allll the time. What you guys clearly dont get, is how deeply rooted this insecurity is in me... its EXTREMELY uncomfortable and embarassing to talk about face to face with a guy, especially a guy whos opinion matters a lot to you... I feel like if i do that, hes gonna take a second look, or a closer look and not like what he sees.I DO NOT want to draw any more attention to it or make it a bigger issue to me than it already is... Im not saying that i'll never talk about it in detail with him, but if i do.. it'll be in my own time...and in my own words...

K,  

I owe you an apology.

you were absolutely correct to be offended at my tone.

It is apparent that Eric and I feel the same way about this. He was just more successful at articulating it.

K. . .

Well said.

I think you flamed tempest a little too harshly though.

You do know he's just trying to help right??

I'm not taking sides here, I'm just saying that tempest made some good points, as did you.

At the end of the day, tempest is like me, or any other guy on this website -- we all love pussy, and although for you and some of the other women on the site talk about pussy is "compartmentalized", I think for some of the women, and most of the men on the site, it truly is something we enjoy talking about, discussing, and helping where we can.

I think what tempest is saying to say to you (of course this is in my own words), without paraphrasing him, is that we all care.

We care enough to make you feel good about what you have, and to let you know that it's perfectly natural (I'm so sick of the word "normal" ergo, my use of the word "natural").

For me, I get a "warm and fuzzy" feeling when any of the women on the site send me a nice shot of their pussy (I get a "hard, stiff and throbbing" feeling if the pussy in the pic is wet!) -- to me it's almost like a small little sign as to say that my mission was accomplished.  A sign that everything I've said, and everything the other men (and women) on the site have said, has collectively boosted the confidence of this woman enough, to the point where she has no problem sending some (or all) of us pictures of her most prized physical asset; simply because she now realizes just how incredible it actually is.

So in retrospect, I think what I hear Tempest telling you is that he feels like we've failed you (and I have to admit, I think I share that feeling with him).

Now, I do have to tell you K, I completely disagree with you on what you said about not talking to your boyfriend about this face to face.  Remember that emotion and logic are two completely separate responses to something.  To you, the emotional response, is that he's going to take a second look, or a closer look or not like what he sees, when in reality, the logical (and most likely) response is that he'll explain to you why to him it makes absolutely no difference, and that your pussy feels so good to him (of course if that's true, which for the sake of argument I will assume is true for him).  I think the main thing here is that it IS a big issue for you, and you're simply too afraid or embarrassed to discuss it with anyone that matters.  I mean, that isn't to say the people here don't matter, but the main person who does matter is the one who you're NOT telling.

Now, I do like the prospect of you eventually discussing it with him, which is what you seem to have hinted at by saying it'll be in your own time and in your own words.

My main point is that in any relationship. . .for things to work, HONESTY has to be the pivotal point in the relationship with which all other things develop.  In my experience, and in the experiences of other people I've seen in my life, HONESTY later on in the relationship is usually a day late, and a dollar short.

If in your shoes (and I'm not in your shoes), I'd be honest with him sooner rather than later.  There is no "perfect" time to discuss things that are important to you, especially when it comes to your own insecurity/confidence and sexuality/or lack thereof.

If I never see a picture of your pussy, and you told me you had "the talk" with your boyfriend, I'll be just as happy!

Well, not really, but close enough!  How's that for honesty! =0)

Nothing but love for ya K. . .

- Eric

Alright, I'm over it. You clearly dont understand where I'm coming from... Lets just drop that subject cus we're never going to agree.. We're both strong minded and neither of us are going to change their minds so theres no point..... next subject......