First oral sex in 15 years

Iowa Girl

April 25, 2008

First, let me say what so many women have said, thank you for this incredible website!  I too had considered having surgery to reduce my labia because there is so much pressure about what is "normal" and "beautiful" and "sexy".  On several of the medical websites for labia reduction they talk about it being a "beautification" process to fix "abnormally large labia."  Anyway, I have been on and off seeing the same man for 5 years.  I've always loved pleasuring him but have been unwilling to let him see me naked because of my large and uneven labia.  He is a soldier in Iraq and comes home in July.  He has been literally begging to go down on me for the last year and I have been so afraid to let him.  I finally told him via email that I had large labia and sent him a couple of pics from this website to see what he thought.  He said he didn't really care about the size, hadn't ever been with a woman with large labia before but that I didn't need to worry at all.  So, I sent him an email with a pic of my pussy (I was super horny at the time) to see what he thought and again, he said that it looked great (he didn't know it was my large lips he was looking at.)  He said that he liked a little hair, so I shaved to leave a little hair.  I guess I'm still nervous.  I'm 46 and he's 39 and he is the only man I've been with since I divorced my ex-husband in 1993 (who thought large labia were gross and unattractive.)  If it's okay, can you put the pic here?  I welcome any comments.

Thank you again for such an empowering website, you cannot imagine how much encouragement it has provided.  This website is the only thing that gave me enough courage to talk to my boyfriend about this and not feel completely isolated and embarassed. Thank you to all the men who write in expressing their love of large labia.

Dear Iowa Girl,

I bet you are dying to have some oral sex after 15 years! It is understandable that you are still a bit concerned, since it has been such a long time you had anyone go down on you. However, there are three reasons you can let go of your nervousness:

First: your boyfriend is a soldier on the battlefield (which means he is lacking pussy and is probably horny as hell!) The last thing he worries about is the size of his girlfriend's pussy lips.

Second:  your boyfriend has begged you to go down on you! This means he loves doing it. Now, speaking for myself and for guys I know, most men who love eating pussy also love it to be meaty.

Third: he looked at the picture of your pussy and said it looked great, not even knowing it was yours. Wait until he sees it in reality. I bet he will dive right in.

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