A random find that was nothing short of life changing

Alexi

April 24, 2008

I honestly cannot explain to you how much I appreciate this site. I'm only nineteen but have still been beyond self conscious to the point of having surgery soon. No way no how anymore. Its sad that I've heard so many boys my age say such harsh things about some girls vaginas. They tend to leave out appreciation whenever discussing sexual education. Media doesnt seem to help either because younger guys are far less open minded and seem to think small is the only way to go. Completely liberating. I really can't say thank you enough!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WOOOHOOOO!!!

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self concious 20 y/o

January 5, 2012

I too know how you have felt.. I have been sexually active, but have never allowed any guy to see me "down there". I have always been afraid he'd not like me. Or would break up with me because of that... Even just the thought of letting a guy see me there is scary because i to thought i was not "normal"... Now i am pregnant.. The guy left when he got the sex.. Now im with a guy i want to be active with.. We've been together for almost 5 months, but am terrified of what he will think of my labia... I've told him i don't like how i look there and i'm not sure if im ready for sex just yet.. He said he is perfectly fine with that and wants to wait until i am ready and am comfortable.. But fact is is im due in a month. and from what i hear sex with a newborn in the house isn't so easy to get anymore.. Any advice on how to open up enough to him before baby comes out?! The pics here are great.. Some women are even larger then my lips... but, still am slightly self conscious..

tempest_driver

January 6, 2012

Self conscious,

Your hesitancy is understandable, but I think you should consider a couple of things. This man is with you, and has been for several months. You're pregnant with another man's child, and haven't given him sex for 5 months, and he's still here. AND SEEMS WILLING TO.WAIT AS LONG AS YOU'LL MAKE HIM.

I like to kid myself and say that I'm "the man" but this gut may really be "the man" because from where I'm sitting he looks like a real keeper. Seriously, if I was really into you, I could handle the instant family, but I'd need to think you were pretty special to be with you after that first month without sex.

No I don't think he's going anywhere. I think he really cares for you or you'd have been history a long time ago. At this point, your pussy would literally have to have teeth to scare this man off.

My suggestion for you, show this man how much you appreciate him for being a real man.

But that's just this man's opinion.

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