Heather
January 4, 2006
Who are these people who think these are sexy? Are they allll older
men? I have watched porn with some young guys my age (19) and if a
girl with even medium labia comes on the screen they are like "EWWW
that is sooo nasty!" I just am sooo uncomfortable with the way my
labia look, they are large and puffy, I have never had a comment,
negitive or positive about my labia, and would be totally mortified
if i did. If my labia were smaller i would just have soooo much more
self confidence. They are also very very uncomfortable while walking
(only if im naked) Im just wondering what I can do. .I even lie to my
doctor about pap smears and tell him i just had one like a month ago
so i dont have to show him my large labia! I will never ever ever let
a guy touch them, im just so self conscience about them! Please tell
me what I can do, i know you hate the idea of altering the appearance
of the labia, but i dont want NO LABIA just so its comfortable.. is
there anyone that can do this, without costing a TON, i mean can just
an OB/GYN do somethin? please let me know.... THANKS SO MUCH
ps. i looked at the pictures and they did make me feel better
but... i just can imagine any younger guys likin it. i dont know why
they would!
Dear Heather,
I don't know what you can do to have them removed safely and cheaply. But please consider this: you possess the type of pussy that could make some guys practically worship you... for the rest of your life! Is it worth getting rid of it just to avoid a possible rejection by some ignorant twerp who doesn't enjoy big labia? The trick is to learn how to embrace it, rather than to hate it.
In my view you are making way too much out of how those young guys were acting. They get together to watch a porn movie, one guy doesn't like some girl's pussy or tits and says "ewww", and the rest follows because it's cool to laugh at porn scenes, even if some of these guys couldn't care less about her labia size. Or maybe they just felt uncomfortable because they are intimidated by so much womanhood. It's easy for guys to make fun of an actress in a porn movie, but I'm sure as hell most of them would be horny like fuck if the porn actress in question would be naked in front of them!
You absolutely need to get over your fear of exposing your labia to your doctor. Those pap smears are important! Besides, your doctor has seen thousands of vulvas. Do you really think he hasn't seen one as puffy as yours? Alright, let's pretend he hasn't... what are you afraid of? His reaction? That he would reject you, his patient? “Sorry Heather, your labia are too big, get out of my office!” C'mon, doctors are trained to deal with the worst medical conditions. They can surely handle a case of well developed pussy lips!
A final word to all younger labia-loving dudes who read Heather's letter: help me out here guys, please write her an email and explain her why you adore them! Because my dear Heather, to answer your first question, it's not just older men who get turned on by large labia!