kate
January 4, 2006
i have had a large labia for as long as i can remember. i have always been very ashamed of it and have always felt mutilated or disfigured somehow. i have never seen a large labia in magazines or porn videos- so i always figured i must be right about my theory. when i was young i had a guy tell me -- he could tie me in knots-- and since then in have always been very embarassed. my husband has always re-assured me there is nothing wrong w. me but he wont go down on me. i am 27 years old a attractive. looking at this sight has helped me realize i am not alone -- and that some guys find this attractive. my ex- boyfriend was totally turned on by it but my husband seems a little grossed out. during a fight he even told me my pussy was mutilated. i just dont know what i can do--- i guess not much. i would def. consider surgury if i had the $$!! anyway this sight has helped me realize i am not alone!!
Dear kate,
Please read what Clamman wrote in his letter Un-necessary Sadness: “It is unfortunate that when a relationship begins to falter some people will stoop to violating the sanctity of the bedroom. ... Move on. There are better people out there.”
How stable do you think your relationship is? I for one find it astonishing that your husband won't go down on you. Unless you have an infection, like bacterial vaginosis, there should be no reason why a man doesn't enjoy pleasuring his wife orally. It just doesn't seem normal or healthy to me.
True, you would have your labia removed if you could afford it. But what if you can't, ...are you prepared to live a life without oral sex? And are you prepared to let yourself be ridiculed from time to time by someone who obviously doesn't appreciate true womanhood?