Is there any solution?

Gerry,

It so obvious there's women and men who would appreciate a site that would help them meet and communicate SAFELY...of course I mean women with large labia and men who love them. But a site like that doesn't exist yet. I think women like myself don't really know what kind of men are on this site. Like age, looks, if you're a weirdo or not. So that's why this site is not a good place to try and meet women or men. But I understand why men would try with the rarity of women like myself ;)  
Right now I'm 23, single and dating, looking for the right guy..I'm trying to figure out ways that I could find out if the guys I date like large labias without just coming right out and saying that I have one. If they do say it's ugly or not what they like I wouldn't want to see the guy anymore. Sex isn't everything in a relationship but I think it's very important. I would have better sex with a man who I knew loved large labia because I could just relax and let my labia get really swollen without feeling uncomfortable about it.

Hi Gerry,
I can sympathise with your plight, but as I am female that obviously colours my opinion to a degree. To be honest, Lia's response pretty much perfectly encapsulated my thoughts on the subject.  
Maybe one day there will be a dating section to this site. Then the men and women who are looking for more will have an easier time of finding each other and be able to avoid the inevitable frustration that would come from constantly, blindly putting yourself on the line. Fingers crossed for the future. :)

Lia
Thanks for replying. You have raised some interesting points. With respect to meeting men on this site, I can appreciate your concern about safety, since most people don't really use their true identities. I sense though, that most of the submissions to this site seem pretty sincere, whether they are from women who are expressing their insecurities, their gratitude for having found this site, or whether they are from men who reassure these women and who would love dearly to meet them, and lick and suck their lips.  
As you noted, unfortunately, a site where we can meet each other may not exit at this time.
With respect to wondering whether guys you date love large labia---- this is a genuine concern. In this regard, I refer you to a submission by "Ontgirl 23" dated 24 March, 2009 on this site, quote,  "I wish there was a way to find out what a guy's preference is before getting serious"
As you quite rightly noted "sex isn't everything in a relationship, but it is very important". I also happen to share that view, but if you date and care for, some one who is turned off by the appearance of your lips, this will put a damper on the intimacy and ultimately undermine/ruin the relationship. However, if a guy sincerely cares, he should accept you regardless of the size of your lips.
Most couples today usually have some formal/informal "pre-intercourse" conversations about issues such as health status, safe sex etc, and perhaps you could try and find some creative/innovative/informal way during one of these conversations to obtain his views on "lip size"  --- I don't whether or not this is a good suggestion, but I am just trying to be helpful.
G

Hello fyre_angel,
I appreciate your reply,  and agree with your views. Thanks also for commiserating with me (smiles)
You did not mention it, but are you one of those lucky women gifted with large labia? You also referred to frustration that ensues from "constantly, blindly putting yourself on the line" Have u personally experienced such frustration?
I would be happy to hear from u, either on this site or through my hotmail address.
Gerry