Malcohm
July 17, 2008
Dear Scared,
I was surfing the net and came across this sight.
You captured my attention at "scared" and synched it when I got to:
"i a muslim 29 years old girl...........hav long dangling lips... our
culture dont allow premarital sex.....mostly our parents seek out
guys for us....so we hav sex after marriage normally..............."
I only know a little about Muslim, but have experience in
Jewish Customs. Now I wonder how you made a single life till you were
29 years old. How you escaped being circumcised and sewed up,
although IU can understand that is what a Muslim man may expect. As
for pre-arranged marriage that wou8ld be [kiddushim] a separation of
a particular woman for a particular man. Young girls are taught to be
ladies before they are women and boys are taught to respect girls,
especially their betrothed. I know Gentiles who were not taught. Even
though you are [not] of Isreal you are of te lineage of Abraham
through Ishmael, a blessed people Bresheet (Genesis) 17:20.
At 29 you are a woman [not] a girl, and with protruding Libia
Minora or maybe large Libia Majors you're more woman. If they give
you more pleasant nerve endings that is better yet, be yourself
feeling especially different. At this point you should [not] be
strangers, talk and that is [not] premarital sex. People sprnding
their lives together should be comfortable with each other. Love what
you have.
I may [not] find this sight again, but hope I was
helpful.
Dear Malcohm,
For those readers who don't know what letter you are referring to, here is the link to Scared's letter.
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