Dear Mary,
I know how you feel. I had a boyfriend for 8 months
and never had sex with him (even though i really wanted to) because i
was too embarrassed to show him my labia. my inner labia extended
much further out than my outer labia. i was so embarrassed and
distressed about it so i had cosmetic surgery and had them cut down.
at the time i thought i was abnormal.. that no one else had a vulva
that looked like mine.. i felt disgusting.
Now, after the
operation.. my inner labia still extends past my outer labia.. but
not so much any more. My current boyfriend (who i have been dating
for over a year) loves my pussy. ive asked him if he thinks my labia
are too big.. but he said he loves it.. he loves playing with it and
licking it and... well you get the picture. now i feel like i
shouldnt have had the operation in the first place. it was so
painful.. and left me with reduced sensitivity and now my labia are
not symmetrical. it looks less natural now. The point is.. of course
you're going to come across guys who don't like the look of
your Vagina... but why let that bother you? Everyone has their own
opinion.. some like curvy women, some like slim, some like blonde
hair, some prefer brunette.. its just the same as some Men prefering
smaller labia, and some Men liking large. As long as YOU know you're
sexy then it doesnt matter.
:)
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