Mirror, mirror...

newlove

August 26, 2010

First, I just want to thank you for putting this website together.  I have a beautiful body, which unfortunately it has been on rare occasion that I have been able to see it that way.  It is not easy to undo conditioning, but I believe it is well worth the journey, learning about all aspects of life along the way.  My first challenge with body image started when all my friends were developing breasts - and I was developing barely there breasts.  I was teased about it - but never by the guys.  It was always by the other girls!  And they could be mean about it - even my so called closest friends.  I have a pussy that is pretty close to the one on your home page, and I have been SO shy about it.  Any negative messages that I've gotten regarding that, again, from other women!  I think that just branches from competitiveness.  

It wasn't until I had a boyfriend that (admittedly) liked watching porn, and I joined him in it, that I really started to wonder if I was "gross" - ALL the women in all the porn we watched had little tiny labia all neatly tucked into the outer lips......  Instead of feeling any sense of liberation from watching porn with him, I developed a complex.  I mustered up the guts one day to ask him if I was really different from other women, and he just smiled and started telling me about the various pussys he's known, all the shapes and sizes.  Still, it is a little hard to shake off, when the ideal is portrayed as a little teeny weeny pussy.

When I came across this site -  I was searching labiaplasty on a search engine.  And I have revisited your site several times.  Every time I look through it - the pictures, read the letters, I leave the computer feeling pretty gorgeous.  I am not going to consider labiaplasty anymore.  I'm going to continue learning to love my body, and see it for what it really is.

I am also an avid practitioner of yoga.  That too helps tremendously with body image.  The purpose of yoga is gaining control of the mind, so the mind doesn't control you.  In practicing the postures and other aspects of yoga, negative beliefs tend to melt away.  I've started a practice not particularily loving what I was seeing in the mirror, and finished the practice seeing nothing but beauty in my reflection.  I practice naked often and I watch myself. This too helps me to love my body.  

I've come across a few pictures on your site that look really close to my body.  Small breast and plump pussy - I always wished it were the other way around (big tits and small pussy), but now I feel kind of unique - and when I see the women in the pictures that look like me - I think they are abosulutely gorgeous.  So why not me?  :)  I definately want to get pictures done one day, and I will send you one when I do!

Your site has been such a blessing.   Thank you, thank you, thank you!

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