The DEVINE Pleasure....& I wanna know what takes your breath away

pearl

August 21, 2010

I am familiar with this  site and I've read a great portion of the letters on here over time. Main reason for contributing my own response ~ please read on.
When I'd discovered this site for the first time it was overwhelming occasion, as at the time I was having a dramatically difficult time in regards to I looked  down there .  I went through a time when I never touched myself, let alone look at myself naked in the mirror.  
Yet, it wasn't always like that. As I was growing up  it d never occurred to me that by enlarge girl's  inner  lips are  invisible ,  out of view ... in essence I really believed that there was nothing  strange  or  uncommon  about they was my pussy looked.  
I have very prominent inner lips and clit; while my outer lips however are very small. And that does reflect in the appearance of my (inner) lips   they seem bigger (they ve been like that for as long as I can remember). Also I slim and petite. Both of the inner and outer lips are symmetrical & I love the colour of my  inner lips   pink, yet not the pale kind (and they are  slightly darker at the tips   that I am not so keen on).  I'd tried the fully waxed look before (a few times) and although the smoothness down there felt beautiful....at the time I didn't particularly like such exposure (esp. on my hood). Though not waxing it bare is not much different....oh but I always do ma bikini line.  
I do love how my pussy feels   though some days I do have less positive thoughts on how it looks. Over the years the thought of surgery remained in the back of my mind   whilst I knew its dangers: loss of sensation(!!  - undoubtedly that is the hardest) infection, ect the list goes on...now I am certain that labiplasty is not for me (I am however still keen on a breast enlargement, as it is something I genuinely need).  
By nature I am an extremely sensual person, I KNOW what I love and there is nothing I LOVE more than to PLEASE a lover in bed....exploring all night long and reaching new highs would drive me wild.  
Yet, at the same time I don't have a lot of experience....I am highly selective...and past my  one   night  stand phase   which ironically stopped as quickly as it began.  And this is a major point   its not that easy to find a labia lover...in addition I am after something more: even if it is no stings attached fun. I look for an articulate, fun, genuine, highly sensual, kind, happy and focused/determined person (male or female). Personally is key but if I said looks are unimportant then, I'd be lying, I do love someone what looks after their overall appearance and the androgynous style/look highly appeals to me ...yeah i do have high standards but I  can give a lot back with pleasure and genuinely so.  
Oh, how I'd love to get down, with funky music in the background, candles and incense completely lose myself in a night long sexual ecstasy!  

As I mentioned earlier I love to please as much as I like to receive. Ah, one particular letter comes to mind: one guy wrote that his love for labia is so powerful that he would not even mind if the girl does not return the favour of going down on him in return. Oooh it is part of the pleasure boy!! <33 I'd love to drive you wild in more ways than one!  
This is a request for all the guys on here (+ the girls can also  contribute with their tips)  
I wanna know  ways in which I can improve my fellatio skillz. Tell me what drives you wild.

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Joe Nobudy

August 26, 2010

To answer your question concerning fellatio, I would start by saying if your are going to do it the most important thing is to do it with enthusiasm.  I don't enjoy it if the lady is not enjoying it.  I would assume it is the same for women--you don't want me down there licking your labia and making faces like they're covered in lemon juice.  I don't want you looking like I just stuck a dirty gym sock in your mouth.  If you don't wanna do it, don't fake interest and we're moving on to the main event anyway.

So to those who are down with going down, try this.  Put just the head in your mouth and suck on it alone.  Many girls focus to much on deep throating and trying to swallow the whole length.  Don't get me wrong, I appreciate the effort and it feels great.  But the place that gets most men excited is the back of the head (brim of the helmet).  If you watch a dude masterbate, its the touching/bumping of this area that finishes him off.  So try to just suck the head.  The bonus move here would be to add some tounge on the hole while sucking.  The grand slam would be to let him finish in your mouth while sucking.  Contrary to what the porn industry would have you believe, many guys would rather cum in your mouth and have you swallow without ever actually seeing the product.  

I have plenty more to share if anyone is interested.  I'm looking for a dirty pen-pal or two just for fun.

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