How I use to feel and Now :) Thank-you :)

~Rose~

August 18, 2010

Hey :) I wanted to personally thank the moderator/s of this site. From about 13 years old I was generally aware of my labia and how it looked and to be honest I felt so bad about how it looked. I use to cry myself to sleep because it upset me to think that no boy would ever want to see it or touch it and I thought it was just disgusting. I was even considering labia reduction surgery at 13! This was mostly because I was given a fake image of women and the "perfect" vagina that men like etc from the start and seeing the typical neat vagina seen on most of the major porn sites that I had seen. I did this mostly too compare myself too them. The comparing part really affected me as well. BUT I also hadn't discovered that every women was individually beautiful down there and how every women is different anyway. (Also that there are in fact porn sites for big labia.)

There is nothing I love more than feeling beautiful and just generally being a women and loving my body. I got heartbroken a few times by a few silly people who had seen my vagina in photos and got grossed out and lied to me so this bought my confidence down even more that I didn't have a nice neat vagina. And although I had been to the doctor to get it checked because it use to irritate me and just to make sure, the women doctor said it was a perfectly healthy vagina so I figured over time that I didn't want to take those certain boys comments in anyway(they were probably gay :p)  

The thing I thought is that, particularly teenage boys, didn't have the real knowledge of a normal teenager and a womens body. They were usually use to the perfect porn body they looked at so it gave them the wrong idea of how a womens body "will and should look". Now I am 16 years old, I am still a virgin but I am very confident in my labia minora. I have my bad days sometimes but I am very lucky to have found a guy who loves my body and vagina I have been blessed with. He thinks of me the world as well which makes me smile lots. This website gave me the extra confidence in my vagina and myself and made me see myself in a different light to in fact see that there are women out there across the world, just like me. It's like my whole thought process has changed on my vagina.  

Also the Met-Art site was beautiful and all the pictures made feel me confident of my body. So confident, I'd consider nude photography myself! So I ditched the negative surgery thoughts! and ditched the mean (gay :p) guys! and I always find myself on this site whenever I need a confidence boost too. So thank-you for giving girls like me positive thoughts and confidence in their vagina's and labia's. I realize now every women is beautiful in their own way. It also takes the right guy to too really boost my confidence as well. Much love and thank-you again :)

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