My first time having SEX and my long labia minora !?

yp92,
Did you take a look at this site by any chance?  
Your letter is so messed up I don't know where to begin with.  
I'm trying to decide whether it's more messed up that you are on a site where countless men are drooling over luscious large labia and you are crying that your labia is not pink and "normal" (???) or the fact that you see yourself so low that you need to hook up with a cocky "player" to feel popular!? or that you say you are very beautiful but your awful labia makes you so ugly?
There are  plenty of tips for you here. Please take a look and see if it brings you back to reality.

yp92,

Who's to say what perfect labia are???? I love long labia so that is perfect to me and honey if you have read the post on this site there are plenty of guys out there who think the same way i do.........So pefect labia are in the eyes of the beholder!!! Long labia are so sexy and way better to play with and suck on and are just all around better than tiny little nothing to suck on labia. This boy should feel privlidged to have something a lot of guys dream about........and if he doesn't then girl he's not the one for you cause like i said there are plenty of guys out there that would kill to be the the position he is......having an attractive girl who obviously wants him and who has gorgeous long labia to boot now you are the perfect package now aren't you.........That is one lucky guy!!!!!!! :-)  

All i can say is just be confident.....confident in yourself your looks and the rest will take care of itself......Have fun on your first sexual experenince honey and i hope there are many more to come.

Ummm, yp92,

What makes you wonder that he won't think yours is the perfect labia? You are looking at this issue purely from the feamale perspective, many( if not most) men see it oppositely. You think "short" is "normal", and well may it be, but for many men (if not most) it is not the most attractive.  

You need to separate "normal" from "attractiveness", these are not the same issues. The word "normal" that you use carries the connotation of "average appearance", not only is your face not of average appearance (you stated you are beautiful to look at), now look at the edge you have over the competition with something they don't have with georgeous pussy to boot.  

Before I married my wife, she had your "problem", lots of suitors because she had it upstairs & down. She had men begging her for marriage, she tried out a few of them and ended up with me. I considered it a privilege when I got her pussy in my mouth for the first time.

Take a look at metart.com because there you can see many beautiful girls with large labia. It is all in your head that beautiful girls normally have short pink labia. There is a very good chance that he has been with girls before who has large labia, and like the other guys here state, men usually like large labia, so don't worry. And wether or not he likes large labia has nothing to do with his popularity, it's just something that most guys like. It is your own insecurity that's making all these distinctions in your head.  
If you have heard him talking about other girls in a mean way it's a whole other story -then I wouldn't go near him

yp92,    

Ann........is right on the money, she could have been my wife writing a message to you, she certainly knows "men", at least the normal ones. This is a matter which can be a man's softest spot giving you an edge over the competition. Do like like my wife did to me shortly after we met, flash that well endowed pussy onto his face & see if he does like I did, make a beeline for it with my mouth, that should be the "right of passage" for anything further.

LabiaLover