I love this site, but am still hating my large labia!

Whitney,

My wife is a Sexual and Reproductive Health Nurse.  She has seen more pussies than she has had hot dinners.  Believe me when I say that working in that area, she doesn't bat an eyelid - she's seen it all.  Any of the doctors/nurses and delivery room staff have no doubt seen labia bigger than yours.  Besides, haven't you gone to your gynae before for a pap smear?  If not, your insecurities about your pussy may well kill you.

As to the little balls of paper stuck to you pussy - a well endowed girlfriend of mine used to refer to that as "clitty litter" - clever.  It's not just women with larger labia that have this happen.

Whitney, your insecurities are far uglier than your genitals.  As a man I want a confident woman who loves her body for what it is.  Not a woman too embarrassed by something that is not an issue for most men (mature men, not boys or bitchy 'sista's' - - some support network most women turn out to be!)

Whitney, your body is normal, you probably enjoy great orgasm's and you have a husband who loves you and your body.  Gain the confidence and learn to love yourself - the only person holding you back, is you.

Sorry if that's blunt - just the way I see it.  Feel free to chat if you wish.

Rod.

Whitney,

It is my firm opinion that yours is a pussy that should be celebrated. Don't tuck them before putting on panties, in fact, just ditch the panties. If they rub and cause you pain, and you're one of the ladies who've shaved, you may consider allowing the hair to return around your vagina. body hair is there for a reason, it protects some of our more sensitive areas from chafing as our body parts rub together. Sort of like a lubricant. We have a tendency to remove it for aesthetics, which I'm all for, I think bald pussies are hot, but so are well groomed ones, if the rubbing is causing you pain, it's just not the right choice for you, in my opinion.

If As for going to the Ladies. I believe that if you were to hold your labia apart while urinating, you'd not get pee on them, and then you'd only have to dab at your pee-hole afterwards.

When you get pregnant, and go into labor, the baby won't give a damn about your vagina. And I guarantee you that the doctor has seen perhaps hundreds of pussies, some with big lips, some with small ones, and some that are downright nasty, so I really wouldn't worry too much about that either.

And finally, I have an issue with you not allowing your husband to photograph your pussy. If he's trying to take pictures of it, he obviously likes what he sees when he looks at you. I tend to be a little traditional in some areas, I believe that we're all our own worst critics, so our own views about ourselves tend to be a bit distorted. but our spouses on the other hand, they (hopefully) love us, and want the best for us. and it's their opinion about how we look, not ours, that is the most valid. You belong to each other. it is your right to be able to look at, touch, photograph, and use each other's body how you wish.

I know that that will have a lot of people screaming ,"You mean I should just let him hurt me if he feels like it?"  

NO. If your spouse truly loved you, and was worthy of your love, they would never intentionally do anything to hurt you.

So start letting your husband take the pictures, It'll be hard at first, but you'll get past that in time. He obviously loves your pussy, denying him the pleasure of enjoying it to the fullest is likely hurting him more than you realize.

XOXO t_d

Whitney,

I'll tell exactly what to do......."gloat" about having them, you have a " secret weapon" that can be used to gain a lot of privileges for yourself with other men, my wife can tell you all about that. Only once has my wife ever brought up any discussion about her superior labia, and that was just before we were married when she told me about a nickname her previous fiance had for her, it was "LabiaLover", in a previous post I said it was "labia Woman", but that was a typo, subsequently I've adopted that handle for myself in honor of my wife's endowment.

Whitney, The only thing wrong with your body, with your pussy and it's lips, is your attitude toward it.  It's all psychological.  The fact is that your pussy is certainly beautiful.   It can give you great joy and happiness.  But you must learn to love it, to use it, to enjoy it to the fullest.  You should be confident in your beauty.  You should play with it yourself, finding out just how much joy and happiness it can bring to you.  Doesn't your husband love to play with it?  Or don't you let him?  The simple fact is that your pussy is sexual, it is beautiful, and desirable.  The only one who doesn't seem to understand that is you.  Please attempt to begin to understand it's beauty.  Try shaving it, and read Lucy's comments about shaving and enjoying her pussy.  It just might help you.

Whitney,
I'll tell you what to do: 1) Try to expell thhose silly thoughts from your head; 2) Try to begin feeliing proud of the rare gift you have. Bear in mind that many women dream of having bog labia like yours, and almost all men dream of having women with such labia.
My labia are also quite large. During the pregnancy I went to see doctors at least 20 times. Then and when I was at hospital to deliver my baby, NO ONE paid any attention how my pussy looks, you could believe me! Daily they see houndreds of vaginas and labias of all possible and impossible sizes, so nothing's impressing them.
Once more - be proud with your nice labia and allow your husband to take pictures. You will see they are beautiful!

Best regards
Maya

Maya, Well said!!  You have it right.  I do hope that Whitney reads your advice and takes it to heart.  The problem is not her pussy, but her attitude toward it, and her fears about it.  She would get some supportive reaction if she were to let her husband take those photos she mentioned, and share a few of them with some of the commentors here.

Hello everybody: Here talking from Argentina.
Whitney, don't worry for that detail of your body.I think i have the same features, but i just don't give it importance.i also realice i had a large labia when i was 26 years old, because i put a mirrow betwen my legs, just for curiosity, but i never felt pain or something weird, just looked  for my first time. Sorry for my English.  lot of kisses.
i also have  boyfriend and made him look my labia and he laught because he said that is comon and normal. Most women have, and for a man is not a problem, the problem is yours he said to me.