Searching for confidence!!

Erika,

You're only going by what you know, and it makes sense.

The fact of the matter is, men like me (and most of the ones who spend time on this website) love PUSSY, whether the lips are small or large, we just love pussy.

In fact, you don't have to take my word for it, just ask some of the other men (and women) on this site for yourself.

While you make think you're abnormal, you are actually quite normal, and in fact it is probably the reason you enjoy oral sex so much -- your lips help in the process of bringing you to orgasm.

I have NEVER come across a pussy I didn't like, and if you send me a few pics of yours, I will gladly give you my unbiased, straight-forward opinion, as well the other people on this site, both male and female. =0)

Embrace what you have. . .there is someone out there who will be happy to enjoy it, when you're ready to bless them with it!

- Eric

Sorry doll, you think you got big lips, Sid just sent me pics of his wife and she is truly blessed. OMG to coin a phrase.

So send me a pic or two of you and I will forward some amazing labial wonders and we can chat.

Making the world safe for the well endowed pussy......
One woman at a time.


Ron

Erika,

Don't embarrassed about those huge lips, I know they'd be beautiful to me.  I love oral ... nothing turns me on more that a full mouth full of plump juicy lips (well almost nothing).  Wish I could suck them ... there are not enough ladies that are have been blessed with large lips.

Have a great orgasam filled 2010.

Hello Erika
Happy New Year to you. First of all, you are NOT a freak.
This might come as a surprise to you, but you happen to be a very lucky woman, who is blessed and gifted with large labia, which are a beautiful gift from Mother Nature.
In coming to this site, you have to come to the right place. This site is home to gifted women like yourself, and men, like myself and countless others,who love and appreciate the beauty of large lips and clits.
You stated that you enjoy oral sex --well you are in luck again, because the men on this site, myself included, are all expert cunnilinguists who are orally attracted to large labia, and who enjoy nothing better than submerging our faces between women's legs,  licking and sucking their large heaven-sent endowments,  quenching our thirst by gratefully swallowing gallons of secretions, and creating explosive orgasms.
So, feel free to reach out to us-- we will do whatever it takes to rid you of any feelings of abnormality, and to boost your self esteem.
My e-mail address is included, so don't be afraid to write to me.
Cheers
Gerry

It is not a 'problem' my dear, but in fact a gift, please photograph your devine beauty and share it with the harden admirers on this remarkable web site, all will comment and increase your confidence - also mouth water, at the very least.

Mr "S"

Hello Erika,  What gives is that you are special, especially blessed.  As you say, men are attracted to larger labia, so if yours are larger than normal, how lucky can you get??  Play with them yourself, love your body, be proud of it.  Others will flock to you, in the hopes of being allowed to be with you.  Feel free to write, or to send photos.  My goal is merely to help women who doubt themselves, who don't understand how attractive their larger labia makes them to most men, and to other women as well.  I hope to hear from you soon.  Best Wishes.

Erika,

I was anything but a "pussywhipped" athlete with an Engineering degree, that is until the time my new girlfriend flashed her pussy in my face and four months later became my wife. If you've seen any of my other Replies, you'll know what I mean about my wife, she has'em too and she's told me the only negative comments she has ever heard about them came from other younger gals when she was a teenager (she's in her 30's now), but never from a guy. Well, she figured that out in a hurry after the first time a guy told her how much all that superiorlabia turned him on.  

The first time I saw labia like my wife's was when I was about 11, I was in the home of one of my boyfriend's and I saw his mother getting off the toilet, and she saw me too. I watched her stand up and seemingly just hold her dress at her waist for as long as I wanted to stand there and look at her while she smiled at me. Until that time I never really knew what women had down there, then as I became sexually active I judged all my lovers by that first sight of my boyfriends' mother, & until I met my wife I always wondered what was wrong with all my previous lovers that they seemed to be missing some parts down there. I judged all other women by the first sight I had of my boyfriend's mother and thought there was a problem with all these other women because they didn't have the superior labia I saw on my boyfriend's mother and marveled at it.  It's all a matter of perspective, my perspective from the early age of 11 was what I saw for the very first time, that was what I considered uh, "normal". A couple years after that (when I was 13 or 14)I was with a teenaged girl at a party, we went to another room in the house to be alone (you know what I mean), and I couldn't believe it that she had nothing down there, just a slit, you talk about disappointment, I thought she had a problem. It took a few more girlfriends year down the road before I found "normalcy" again in the gal who was to become my wife.  

That's my short story........yours?

Erika,

I want to echo what was said by those who answered before I did. You pretty much hooked me as a fan by the end of your second sentence.

It troubles me that so many women are ashamed of their large labia, when the fact of the matter is that most of the men you're likely to meet. And all of the men on this site love what you've got.

If you'd care to continue a dialog here, I think I can safely speak for the group in saying that we'd love to have you stick around and keep us company.  

And if one day you'd like to share with of a few photos of what you've been endowed with, I'd love to be added to your mailing list. If not, I'd love to have you stick around anyway.  

Just keep in mind that we will ask. And if your further descriptions are anything like the one you gave in your post. We'll ask a lot.

XOXO t_d

Feel free to chat - love to strike up a conversation - you'll get a 'downunder' perspective... (I'm an Aussie).

Cheers,

Rod.

Thank you so much!!!  Again, I'm new to this site, but I just LOVE it!!  It's so unlike any site I've ever been to.  It's too bad we all don't live in one area where we can meet up!!! :)  Dialogue is good to though.  Anyway, I've been looking through some of the photos on this site, and I have to say, these are a bit small I think compared to mine.  I've had men ask me how many guys I've been with...which is a HUGE insult.  They correlate the size of my lips with how many guys I've been with....I don't get it!!  They have been this size since I can remember...I was teased horribly as a teen in the locker room during gym.  When I run at the gym now, I shower when I get home so know one sees.

Erika,

Ok, now I'm definitely a fan! If your labia are as voluptuous as you claim them to be you'll soon be inundated with requests for photographic proof. When that happens, please add me to your mailing list.

Men who ask such silly questions obviously don't know what to do with a pussy, will not be able to pleasure you to the full extent possible, and don't deserve a pussy as amazing as yours. Remember, it's your body, don't give it to anyone who doesn't appreciate it. If you were to walk out on the next guy to ask you that, he'd be more upset about his blue balls that he was put off by the treasure he didn't realize was staring him in the face. just remember, just about 9 out of every 10 men desire a woman who is built like you. And I personally believe that the 10th man secretly desires the other 9.

As for the women who have nasty things to say to you. I really don't understand the need of some women to boost their own confidence by tearing away at the confidence of other women. Fuck them! I think they Know that their own men desire a pussy like yours, which is something they'll never be able to give them. In other words, they're jealous.  

Well just let them be, love your pussy, flaunt it in those bitches' faces. Enjoy those big voluptuous labia. Don't be afraid to show them off, if a man asks you a stupid question about them, treat him like the imbecile he obviously is, and only give it to someone who'll drool at the very sight of it.

XOXO t_d

Hi Erika,

comments on your comments:

"... It's too bad we all don't live in one area where we can meet up!!! :)  Dialogue is good to though.  Anyway, I've been looking through some of the photos on this site, and I have to say, these are a bit small I think compared to mine ..."
 
I agree it'd be great if we could all meet up.  I was intrigued that you thought the pics were "a bit small" compared to you.  Do any of the pics on the website look kinda like you?  If so give me a pic number from the sexylabia site.  I'm curious about what yours might look like.
 
I hope I don't sound to perverted ... I'm just horny and curious, LOL.

Erika,
happy to chat anytime about our favorite topic.
lovers of sacred lips unite. :-)
blissings, brer

Erika,  
It seems odd that a man would ask you how many lovers you've had just because he notices the size of your labia, my wife didn't ask me that question before we got married!!!! Turn that question around on the next guy who asks you a question that idiotic......if he doesn't have much, he'll certainly wished he'd never brought up the subject in the first place.

Hello Erika
Nice to know that our responses to you have helped to boost your self-esteem.
By the way I wrote to you at the e-mail address which you supplied  (erikab@yahoo.com ) but my e-mail was returned. Could it be a typing error with your address?
Would really be nice 2 hear from you.
Cheers
Gerry

Erika,
I too have gone on thinking I was not mormal and I was like the only person who had larg labia. Although mine are not too big. I for the longest of time would not let my boyfriend eat me out until one day he insisted and gave me no option. It was the most amazing experince ever. Also this site has given me more confidence and made me relaize that I am not the only one and that I have nothing to be ashamed about.

Hello Erika and Irishcutie and all the other women in this world who are blessed to have such beautiful, sexy, large labias.  

I have never understood why some woman would want to look like a child down below, or why they cant simply understand how sexy it is to have some meat to suck on and play with.  Why would anyone prefer to lick a boring hole instead of sucking on some luscious lips??

Both of you are so lucky, more is better.  Any real man would love to worship you down below,  I know I would.

You are not a freak of nature. Throughout human history women who have large labia were considered to be especially sought after. Like in the animal kingdom when a female displays her pink she says I am ready for the right male to mount me. It is no different with humans. When a woman with long labia are wet and flared out they are magnificent and highly erotic. Women like you are sought after and worshiped by men who appreciate your features.