Help?

Anonymous

November 28, 2008

Okay, I'm 20 and I'm a virgin because I've literally been sick with worry of what guys will think of my labia. Every time any relationship gets to the point of sex, I break it off with some lame excuse as to why. I just wanted to ask, is there any way to know if guys will like the huge labia? I know for a fact that most, if they're honest, don't, and that terrifies me. I fear rejection a lot. Also, is there any surgery to get rid of it? I've considered snipping it with scissors, but if there's proper surgery then obviously that would be preferred.  
Thanks for reading, if you did.

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Anon

December 1, 2008

Yes, it is likely to end in disappointment as it is highly likely your vagina is the least of your problems, best bet is to go with your gut instinct and just cut your vaginal skin out until it suits you best.

December 1, 2008

Hey Anon, that's a nasty thing to say if you really mean that, but I think you are just mocking her. To Miss Anonymous, don't let a bit of sarcasm put you down. And never EVER start cutting yourself down there. The bleeding and resultant scars will be horrendous!

Even if you have experienced rejection because of your labia size, it doesn't mean the next guy or guys will react the same. Some won't like it, some will not care what size they are, others will adore you for it... and not necessarily in that order! Fact is, if you overcome your fear and let things just happen next time you are becoming intimate with a guy, you will find someone who will see you as even more desirable because of your huge lips. You possess something that will likely turn out to be a bonus instead of a burden; you just don't know it yet.

lip_obsessed

December 1, 2008

Anonymous,

PLEASE DON"T HAVE SURGERY! That is the last thing in the world that needs to happen. What you need most is a boost in confidence. I offer one on one coaching to women like yourself. Please contact me at my e-mail and let's talk through this, don't do anything hasty! I assure you, you just haven't found the right guy yet. I truly think I can help you with this, just drop me a line and give me a chance to change your perspective on this!

lip_obsessed

jimmy

December 2, 2008

not all men are like that some ov us are totaly the opposite me for one i say surgery would be a waste for any female just give urself more confidence.

Happy27

December 4, 2008

Regarding "Help" by Anonymous.

I have to say as they said above me... Do NOT have surgery! I know that having large labias will at some points in life make you feel different, and just dream of having that "tucked in pussy" as seen in all magazines and so on. But I have to say, when you grow older you will love that you have them cause you will feel how much  guys love them. Most of them do:-) I have never heard a guy say anything negative about my pussylips. Just that they love it...  

I waited a long time to have sex too, for the same reasons as you. My only advice would be that you wait until you feel you can trust this guy. I used to think "when he is fingering my pussy, he must feel my lips, and when he is still turned on by that he will love having sex with me and see it too"  

I have had all of the same thoughts as you, but I promise you it will change! I avoided showering at school for soooo many years.  
I would love to keep in touch with you if you need someone to talk to:-)
Take care, and please don't use a lot of money on a surgery like that. And don't even think about scissors... Infections and a bleeding you won't be able to stop is nothing you wanna do to your self.
Take care, and write to us here if you still have some thought around this subject.

Loving Man

December 5, 2008

To whom this may concern!  I have enjoyed the woman body for years! Men out there who are afraid of enjoying your are out of there minds! Its rediculious to pass on your specialty! You are and have a special gift that God gave you! Your womanhood is the Birthing tool and a super pleasure ride. DO NOT CUT A THING! Your Labia is Beautiful and a wonderful tool in prelinary Love making. It is a very sensitive region and awesome!

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