Still a virgin, still embarrased

Virgin girl

April 30, 2008

First of all I want to thank the creators behind this site. It's made in such a tasteful and beautiful manner.

Like a lot of other girls writing on here, I have been uncomfortable with the looks of my labia for a long time. I don't know exactly when it started, but gradually I noticed when showering after gym at school that I looked different than the other girls. I once heard some girls from my class talking about a girl I don't know, who had surgery to reduce her labia. They all seemed to think that it was disgusting, and that if they had such long lips, they would do the same. This made me very anxious about how they looked on me. I also read an interview with some guys in a magazine, where one said that the biggest turn off ever was seeing a girl from behind and noticing that her lips were dangling between her legs.  

I became very self-consious and tried hiding my lips by tugging them up before taking my clothes of, and I never shaved completely because the hair would make them seem less obvious.

About a month ago I came across this site, and it really inspired me to look at my pussy in a different way. I have now shaven the hair of to be able to look at them better. I love touching them, especially when they are wet.  

But sadly my embarrasment haven't gone away completely, and I'm afraid of other people's opinion. I'm still a virgin, and I have a hard time imagining how a guy will react seeing me. I only hope that I'll find a guy, who loves labia as much as the men writing on here. Having a man go down on me and worship my lips is the most incredible thing I can imagine - I would treasure that man forever.

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RZW

May 1, 2008

You are talking to him!

Similar Girl

May 3, 2008

school is a very sexual environment. just about everything is talked about and one of the most embarassing subjet is "roast beef curtains". everyone in school seems to think that when a girl has portruding labia minora, they're a whore because that's how they got stretched out. im a virgin but i have portruding lips...it is very very embarassing since guys gag or get disgusted by roast beef curtains...my confidence goes down even when i know guys are attracted to me because they probably will be repulsed at the sight of pussy...

Tom

December 22, 2008

To Virgin girl and Similar girl. I guess it's mainly going to be changing rooms that you will have seen most naked women, but probably not so close that you see their labia too clearly! Of course pubic hair will hide some labia, and I bet if all pussies that you have seen so far were completely shaved, then not all labias would be as neat & small as you would think! As said before on here many times, a lot of the problem is, is that any pictures we see of naked women in porn magazines or films, they nearly always have neat small lips, which isn't an accurate portrayal of all women.  So any women that might be curious about their larger lips and search for themselves will probably think that most women are like this, when they are not. Just like the rest of our bodies, they vary greatly, and wouldn't life be boring if we were all the same!? Just as some guys like big breasts, other guys prefer smaller breasts, so it's the same with large labia lips and smaller lips. Personally I find them a great turn-on! But if you meet a guy, and then he's not interested in you anymore because you have told him about or shown him your large labia, then he's really not the type of guy you want and not worth it. If he's a decent enough guy, then he will love you whatever you labia is like.

The boys/young guys mentioned above that make crude comments are obviously immature and naeve is that is what they think. It's also because they probably won't have seen many women naked in detail apart from in porn and again, as mentioned above they are mainly have neater & smaller labia. If you hear them make crude comments about larger labia again, just think to yourself that are young, immature and don't really know anything about real women and their bodies. Not as many men find them as much as a turn-off as you may think and as they grow up and meet more women, they realise that women are different down there just as with the rest of their bodies. As you will have seen, many on here find them a great turn-on! I would find seeing a girl from behind who had lips dangling between her legs a serious turn-on instead of a turn-off! I'd love to see your beautiful pussies and I would love to find a girlfriend with a gift such as yours!

So learn to love your labia! Yes they are different, but they are beautiful and many men will love them. Whenever you touch your labia, rather than thinking that men will find them disgusting, think that they will love you beautiful and unique labia and can't wait to play with them themselves!

I think it would be great on here to have a section where women can post pics of their large labia and the people on here can give their appreciative comments therefor making the poster of the pics feel much more normal and better about her 'gift' and grow to love it.

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