Read the letters at this site. Then ask the same questions if you
              think you have to. 
Find a kind, considerate, mentally mature, and
              appreciative guy (especially one who loves to eat pussy) and you'll
              not have to worry about that.  
 
How do I find a guy like
              that, you ask? As you are dating a guy, have open, mature discussions
              about lots of things, including sex. Subtly feel him out.  
              
Example - a lady friend was a "gusher" and was concerned that it
              might gross me out.  One evening, prior to any sexual contact,
              while enjoying a few drinks, the subject of likes/dislikes came up
              and then, after many comments back and forth, she asked what I
              thought about women who were "gushers".  After having her
              explain exactly what she meant ("a pussy that gets so wet it tends to
              drool heavily during sex and sometimes will even gush"), she broke
              into the biggest smile when I told her that I would LOVE to run
              across one like that.
              
