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Lila

January 28, 2008

My whole life I've dealt with extreme self conciousness about the way that I look. Not only with my labia but with the rest of me as well. (Mostly my labia) It's gotten to the point where I am absolutely terrified of sexual contact.  People tell me that I'm gorgeous but I just don't see it. I never have. I have a fiancee who I love more than life, I want more than anything to be completely comfortable with him in every aspect of our relationship, but I can't seem to break this fear. For how every many men who think that large labia are the sexiest thing ever there is  bound to be an equal amount that think it's not. I think this is a fear of being rejected for something that is a part of me when he says that he loves me more than anything. Anyway, I was wondering if you or anyone else might be able to suggest ways to get around this fear. Much thanks for any help.

~Lila~

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Tom

March 19, 2008

Hey babe,

The way I see it, any man who isn't turned on by large labia isn't a real man. The important thing is to feel confident in your sexiness, and love your gift of large lips.

Horny

March 22, 2008

Hi Lila,  Have a look at the letter I wrote on 2nd March 2007.  Its number 898 in the index. I can't say any more than this.  It is all about my wife and my love of her meaty pussy.  Gary
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Sandra

March 28, 2008

It's the same with many characteristics people have. Some men are especially attracted to tall women or to women with large (or small) breasts. These are things that we can't easily change about ourselves, so we live with the fact that we appeal to some and not others because of them.

When it comes to the way your genitals look, the scary thing is that your new lover doesn't see that part of you until your relationship has already started to grow. I know that I'm always nervous when I take my clothes off with a new partner for the first time. I wonder if he'll like my body and if I'll turn him on. Figuring that out is all part of getting to know each other, no matter what you look like.

Being a woman with large labia myself, I think it's great there are men who find it attractive. Yet my guess is that it's not really that big a deal one way or another for most men. Your fiance wants to marry you. I'm sure he finds you beautiful regardless of what your labia are like.

Happy

August 3, 2008

Lila, I wouldn't place any worry over your labs, there are some that love them and others that don't. I have to tell you I have long beard and I was asked once by a guy, "What about the women that might not like your beard?" I told him "There's enough that do that I'm not concerned about the ones that don't" Face it we all have to be ourselves, some of the guys that don't like large labs are probably the guys that have small cocks and some women don't like them.Love yourself and respect others and most likely it will be returned. Happy

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