what about mine????

lolipop

January 13, 2008

This is a message to you Labi Amore and to whoever man that is reading this.

Well to start with, i am not one of those skinny women or the very toned ones, i am actually very shapely: C cup with very slim ribcage and tummy and then this big fat ass with chubby thighs.  
yes, I have got a big ass (even bigger then any picture has shown here) and have always suffered from it as men in high school and even before have bullied me which put such a scar and impact on me that it is very difficult for me to believe when someone is saying that i have got a nice ass. I think that they are not real, that they are only trying to get me at my Achilles point, to try to sleep with me. i would like to see more pictures of women that are more curvy over here, to increase confidence for the women like me.

Now also, i have a big issue with my labia, STILL after all the reading i have done here, i still noticed that most of the big-lips-pictures were actually quite neat looking. They are barely stretched out or they look very well formed. Mine is not really even, and is quite dark and got lots of folds, it also flops down from my vagina so i am always ambarest to stand naked in the light in front of my man. I personally dont like it. I find it unattractive and useless , as i dont feel anything (unlike other women) when he sucks on it. it feels like a curse to me. even though all those men say they like it i am not sure what they will think of mine. floppy and dangling with a funny shape and dark colour!!! i still find all the women in this site nearly PERFECT compare to me. what does the men have to say about this????

please let me know as i dont feel very confident... :-(

honeylips

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Darling Nickie

March 21, 2008

I will have you know that women are actually paying for bigger butts nowadays!! So please don't feel like your bum is an issue. J-Lo has changed that for a lot of women I think. I personally have a tiny ass and wish I could do something to make it bigger. So embrace that part of yourself! As far as your lips go...I understand how you feel. I look at myself and get disgusted. Men find me very attractive, I get hit on all the time...stupid comments, whistles etc...yet I have always been embarassed to take my pants off. I am married now with 3 children even though I am only 27. I actually brought up the issue to my husband after many years of hiding my shame. Much to my surprise he said he LOVES my vagina and thinks its pretty. Still, I didn't believe him, I thought he was just saying that as not to hurt my feelings. Then I actually said to him I wanted to have labiaplasty, and he freaked out. He said don't you dare do anything to it, its perfect. You just have to love who you are and you will find someone who loves you just for you!! Take Care!!

Darling Nickie   ;)

Horny Gary

March 22, 2008

Hi honeylips, I cant say more than in the letter that I wrote in March 07 (Number 898 in the index) all about my wife and the mind-blowing experience of when I met her and how, many years on, I still love her and her meaty puss.  Gary
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princess pink

May 7, 2008

i hear what you're saying, as i feel like my labia are still not as attractive as the women on this site. but then i try to remind myself of a few things.  

1) these women are all shaven, so if you've got some added hair down there, it can make things look a little less sexy. of course shaving or extensively trimming can seem scary to women with large labia. but if you haven't experimented with shaving, waxing, or trimming it down, maybe give it a try so you can see your lips blooming out onto your shimmering skin like the ladies on this website. shaving it all off might be a bit shocking at first, especially the frontal look where the outter lips aren't converging and the inner lips are visibly hanging, so maybe leaving some trimmed hair above the clitoral hood region while taking off all the hair along the lower areas is a  good start.  

2) while you're neatened up down there, grab a digital camera and see about getting some beauty shots of yourself in the nude (with the option to delete of course!). i suggest not just zooming in for close ups to indulge your feelings that your labia are huge and have lots of folds-- also go for a more encompassing perspective that shows your whole figure, that shows that your labia, though wonderfully present in the image of your figure, isn't really as enormous as it seems in your mind's eye.  

3) in terms of your feeling self-consious that your labia is larger with more folds and less appeal than the women on this site, try to shift your focus from resenting any sight of your vagina, to accepting it as one part of a great, whole figure. come up with mantras or positive words to combat the negative feelings that come up surrounding your labia. for instance "my body has been good to me. i am grateful for my body, and my body is grateful for my love." sounds hippy dippy maybe, but just creating routines wherein you send yourself positive words and vibes can at least counter the negative feelings and give yourself the sense that a wiser voice is present, not just bickering inner voices rooted in fear.  

4) remember that the photos on this site were professionally taken, so for as many hot shots you see, there were probably many very unattractive pictures that got discarded as in any photo shoot. so just like the site creators chose which hot pictures they wanted to focus on, try to pick out the positives in yourself to focus on--the angles that best represent your wonderful, wise, luminescent whole self.

labialover

June 9, 2008

Hi lolipop. I'm hoping you've heard from some men and women on here about their love for many kinds and shapes of long, full, protruding labia. As someone else pointed out, these photos are professionally done and I'm sure they had to throw a few imperfect photos away. I am very attracted to full, long labia. They have an incredible look and feel to them. I have only been with one girl that had labia that I would describe as long, protruding labia and she seemed very comfortable with her gift. To be long and dark and uneven with folds is incredible. I can't say this any more genuinely, but I think you have a wonderful gift in your labia. The way they look in a bathing suit or panties, is incredible to me. I'm very excited seeing a bulge of labia when a woman is bent over and I truly love licking and kissing and sucking. Nothing excites me more than making a woman orgasm by way of my tongue and lips and fingers. A woman can tell when a man is enjoying going down on her pussy and that increases her pleasure. I think that is why I enjoy giving oral so much is because women love it when they know there partner loves worshipping her body. Enjoy your body and the way it looks wrapped and stretched out along a man's shaft.

Lab Dawg

August 3, 2008

Honeylips, Hello, I'd like to tell you what I did with my girlfriends muff, I took a heart shaped cookie cutter and used it for an outline and placed it right above her opening and shaved all around the heart shaped cutter and everything below and it really made her labs look that much better and after I gave her a bath and then a full body massage then I was given the pleasure of licking and sucking on her long and beautiful labs, I must say they are much more enjoyable to suck on without hair, I can get more of it in my mouth, and she said she likes it much better and she says now she has more confidence and isn't self conscious about her long labs. By the way she has a big butt also which i adore. Oh, you wouldn't have to use a heart shape, use your imagination and maybe find something you both like, or you can surprise him and shave it yourself, if you should decide to shave or wax. Have a great day,Lab Dawg

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