Only 14...WEIRD AS

Strange as it is to answer this question to a 14 year old girl, in all honesty, you shouldn't be worried about a sexual encounter for quite some time I hope.

Listen, by time you're ready for the responsibility required for intimacy your situation will be quite common. Lots and lots of young women have the same blessings as you. So don't worry about the differences but the similarities that you and others have in common.

Remember it takes boys a little longer to mature into what really attracts them to the female design. So wear that bikini with pride. Although you might know what you have, nobody will notice through underwear and swimwear.

Look around on the site, and you will find that many men find big labia to be a huge turn-on. You'll find many who'll love your pussy for its size.

Please please please don't be ashamed of your pussy. I have large labia and a large clit hood and I am learning to love the way my pink bits look. Your mum was incredibly insensitive about your vulva but then it has been drummed into us all for years what a pussy should look like and what it shouldn't. Be proud and confident about how you look because if you feel sexy and confident then you will feel better about yourself, and in the future when you are thinking of having sex then some man is going to worship you and your pussy because of that confidence that you ooze. If you show people you are ashamed of yourself, then they will think that you have something to be ashamed of. Do not let somebody's silly comment batter your confidence- brush it off and remind yourself that you are unique. You have a special secret between your legs that only a few people are going to get to enjoy!!!! x