insecure

Sweden

April 8, 2007

Hello..
I have large labia minora. This is a huge problem for me, and I don't know what to do. From what I've seen in the media, and heard from boys/men in my agegroup, the only thing considered sexy, are small/non-existing lips.. I don't think it's even axepted to have large labias' like mine.. What do I do? I can't bare getting close to a man, cause I'm afraid he's going to think I'm disgusting and leave.. or worse, laugh at me... How do I know if a guy is into it (me!)? I also feel embarrased when I shower in the gym ect. because of my hanging lips.. What's the worst that could happen if I decided to get under the knife? This has been a true problem as long as I can remember..

I used to have boyfriends, but after one guy told me I was gross I haven't dared having sex ever again..
This feels like hell..

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icebergslim

December 21, 2007

U R Blessed please send pics and correspondence

Scott

January 1, 2008

You're finding the wrong men, I'd love to meet you!!! (but I'm already with someone)

big

January 15, 2008

dear Sweden
i hear your frustration. and it touches me because i had the same thoughts, although i am lucky coz i have now a fantastic bf.  
i want to tell you that you should be strong, i had also thought very seriously about reshaping it but after my bf and what i see ad read over here, i gave it a second thought and decided that it is better to accept myself as i am rather than have a scare on the most intimate point that could turn off even the small labia lovers. think about it.... what is worse???  i think that you should meet with a sensible guy, some one who you can tell he has go experience and genuinely likes women, as they are! there are thousands of men out there, you are also not alone among women!!! SOME ONE must adore you there!  
what age are you???  
dont hang out any more with those stupid men.

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