U R Blessed please send pics and correspondence
Sweden
April 8, 2007
Hello..
I have large labia minora. This is a huge problem for me,
and I don't know what to do. From what I've seen in the media, and
heard from boys/men in my agegroup, the only thing considered sexy,
are small/non-existing lips.. I don't think it's even axepted to have
large labias' like mine.. What do I do? I can't bare getting close to
a man, cause I'm afraid he's going to think I'm disgusting and
leave.. or worse, laugh at me... How do I know if a guy is into it
(me!)? I also feel embarrased when I shower in the gym ect. because
of my hanging lips.. What's the worst that could happen if I decided
to get under the knife? This has been a true problem as long as I can
remember..
I used to have boyfriends, but after one guy told
me I was gross I haven't dared having sex ever again..
This feels
like hell..
icebergslim
December 21, 2007
U R Blessed please send pics and correspondence
Scott
January 1, 2008
You're finding the wrong men, I'd love to meet you!!! (but I'm already with someone)
big
January 15, 2008
dear Sweden
i hear your frustration. and it touches me because i
had the same thoughts, although i am lucky coz i have now a fantastic
bf.
i want to tell you that you should be strong, i had
also thought very seriously about reshaping it but after my bf and
what i see ad read over here, i gave it a second thought and decided
that it is better to accept myself as i am rather than have a scare
on the most intimate point that could turn off even the small labia
lovers. think about it.... what is worse??? i think that you
should meet with a sensible guy, some one who you can tell he has go
experience and genuinely likes women, as they are! there are
thousands of men out there, you are also not alone among women!!!
SOME ONE must adore you there!
what age are you???
dont hang out any more with those stupid men.
