Don't worry about those names. They can refer to any woman's
genital area irregardless of the size of her labia minora.
My guess is that most women have small to medium sized labia
minora while a minority do indeed have larger ones. I actually
do like the appearance of the larger ones, but I am most happy with
my wife's smaller labia.
Net: don't get too worried about
those comments and be happy with what you've got... many women are
envious!
