Hey Britney.
I was a in a relationship with a man for three
years. During that time, he would tell me that he'd never seen
inner labia as big as mine, he refused oral sex because my labia were
"disgusting," and told me that my large labia made him question
whether or not he wanted to continue our relationship. It was
an emotional rollercoaster ride that, when it was over, left me hurt,
self conscious, and ashamed. I thought about surgery for some
time before deciding it was not the right choice for me. Even
though I was hurt, I knew I loved myself, my body. When I met
my fiance, I was truly concerned about what his reaction to my labia
were going to be. I was scared to be intimate with him because
I didn't think I could face more rejection. After time went by,
I confided in him, told him about my insecurities. To my
surprise, he was not turned off at all. In fact, he finds me
very sexy! This website helped me to stop hating my body, and a
good lover helped me to enjoy sex more than I ever have in my life.
If your boyfriend is turned off by your body, shouldn't that be
a turn off for you? Be true to yourself, and if he gets weird
about it, find someone who will love you for who you are!
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