Dani
December 29, 2006
I am a petite blond with a C-cup and blue eyes, and I weigh 110
pounds. I feel sexy with my clothes on but not with my clothes
off. I'm afraid I saw too many Playboy magazines at a young
age, and I can't shake the feeling that large labia are hideous.
Like many others, I found your website while looking into
labiaplasty. I would love to be as confident as the women in
the pics, but the thought of someone seeing me with legs open wide,
including my own husband, is absolutely mortifying to me. I
have been self-conscious about my large lips since my first boyfriend
commented on them. Fortunately, I was only the second girl he
had ever been with and he came to love them. We were together
on and off for nine years and I felt completely comfortable with him.
My husband of three years is the only other person
who has ever seen me up close and personal, and he seems just to
accept them. Unlike me, he had many sex partners before we met,
and I don't think he was ever with a woman who looked like me.
I'm afraid he has also been brainwashed by the Playboy
mentality and thinks I'm abnormal and unattractive. Because I
am not convinced that he finds me sexually appealing, I am extremely
self-conscious and have completely lost my orgasm. I used to
LOVE oral sex b/c my ex couldn't get enough, and had me all figured
out down there. My husband has no idea what to do and I am too
self-conscious to even get aroused, let alone to try to help him do
better. How can I make him love me for my body, not just my
mind?
Discouraged,
Dani
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