publius
December 16, 2006
I am a bit surprised at the number of you out there who post along
the lines "I was ashamed of the appearance of my vulva until I
encountered your site." Were you ridiculed by other girls in high
school or summer camp? If so, that doesn't prove that there is
anything wrong with your sexual anatomy. It only proves that the
kindness and openness of teenage girls can leave something to be
desired. Have you suffered at the hands of insensitive, even
crude, lovers? If so, you do not have to tolerate that in any way. Do
you trim or shave your pubes in such a way that makes your large
labia obvious? Let your pubes grow back, and to hell with the fact
that full pubes are not in fashion nowadays. Pubic hair is Mother
Nature's natural G-string for women. It helps you reserve your pussy
for the one and only in your life.
I discovered the powerful
sex positive message of Betty Dodson 20 odd years ago. Dodson began
taking cunt portraits (her phrase) of women inn the early 70s, and
using them to create slide shows for feminist talks. She is the
person who opened the curtain on the fact that there is great variety
in women's genitalia.
The labia are kind and
unthreatening, and intensely feminine. Large labia even more so.
Just remember to wash between them when you shower. The only
drawback to large labia I can think of is that they should be opened
carefully before peeing. Large labia are not that rare. What is much
more unsettling, and rightly so, is a large clit; it's terribly
masculine and quite rare. But a website I linked to from here, run by
a middle aged woman married with chidren, who has a HUGE clit and who
swears she has never taken steroids, has convinced me that a straight
woman can fully come to terms with a large and masculine looking
clit.
I am happily married with children, to a spouse with
simple unpretentious labia minora
that protrude only when she is
fully aroused. Her full triangular bush of pubic hair largely
conceals her vulva except when she spreads her legs for me. But I
think the large elaborate labia depicted on this site should be
powerfully arousing to any healthy man.
I also think I can
appreciate what it means to have large labia, because I have a
foreskin and live in the USA. I was unable to appreciate that I was
normal and sexy until my late 30s. The male foreskin enhances sex in
a way similar to how ample labia minora enhance sex. But American
culture is still groping towards an understanding of these sexual
facts.
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