Freak or Fantasy?
October 31, 2006
I am 35 years old and have been EXTREMELY self conscious of my large
inner labia since junior high. Both my sisters and my mother
all have what is considered "normal" labia. My oldest sister
has even mentioned that there is a surgery to "fix" my labia! I
have heard men/boys make their comments about "meat curtains" or
"roast beef" and try to brush it off. But it is so hurtful!
I have been to two different comedy shows in the past year only
to hear jokes about "when pussy's go bad" and the like. There
have been moments when I was brought to tears when hearing such
comments made in my presence. Even my best friend (who has no
idea I have large labia) talks about "bat wings" and how gross they
are! I feel like a freak most of the time. My current boyfriend
has no idea I am self conscious about my pussy and seems to love
giving me head. I feel like I need to tell him how I feel about
it but I am afraid it will only call attention to a negative.
Although there are many men on this site that seem to love
large inner labia, I feel that they may be the minority. I have
never heard insulting comments made on women with PLayboy Pussy's.
I will be honest, I have been tempted to look into the labia
reduction surgery but deep down, I know I need to love who I am and
the way my body looks. I am just glad to know there are more
women than I thought with this "issue" and I am not a total freak.
Thanks!
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