Lady P
October 18, 2006
I stumbled across your site when for some reason when I was hit with
a passionate wave of hatred for my labia. I was in tears. It didn't
help when I was watching porn with some people and this one lesbian
girl goes, "wow, her shit is just hanging." I have never had anyone
complain about me, even though I have had some people make comments,
like "you have really long labia," or one person was like "wow," and
I've never been sure whether it was because they were enamoured or
disgusted. Even my boyfriend doesn't care. He knows my insecurities
and says how he likes my long lips, but I am never sure whether he
means it or is just saying it to appease me... so in essense, I don't
believe him.
But I have hated my unusually long labia
ever since I was a pre-teen. I remember pulling on it, hoping maybe I
could tear it off. It only made it longer. I have always been
embarassed to do things many women simply do, like walk around naked,
strip for someone, even wear lingerie. My sexual confidence was
completely low because of my labia. I even hated looking at myself in
the mirror full on. Ever since I heard about labiaplasty when I was
18 (I am now 22), I wanted the surgery. I've contacted doctors but
financial reasons and my fear that I would scar or lose sensation has
stopped me.
I still have insecurities and my sexual
confidence is not exaclty up there, but I can say with the help of
your site, my desire for labiaplasty is pretty much gone. I still
consider it but it's comforting to know that many men desire a long
labia... maybe even over a small, unprotruding one.
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