May 16, 2006
I found your website while browsing for evidence towards a fact that
I have been consistently trying to beat into my guy friends' heads.
Some of them insist that the long "roast beef"-like inner labia
are a sure sign of a promiscuous woman. They seem to think that
women in pornography that have long labia minora got that way by
having too much sex. Unfortunately it is hard to make them
understand that even women who have never even looked at a penis can
have labia like this.
I myself don't really have any labia minora, they blend almost seamlessly into the labia majora. I've always been very proud of them (as every woman should), but until today never understood the beauty and benefits that large labia can be. I used to wonder why women wouldn't just go and have them removed (as to get them out of the way and reduce pain and chafing). But now the idea has really clicked that these women's inner labia are probably quite sensitive and most likely feel wonderful when stimulated.
As an aspiring sex therapist/educator, I will be keeping your website in mind for the future. I'm sure I will come across many women who are uncomfortable with their vulvas (and men who wish they weren't!) and this will be a great resource to redirect them to.
I've noticed that a lot of these women experience this site not just as a confidence booster but—and I don't say this to pat myself on the back—as a life changing event. As if someone just turned on the lights.