I don't know what May 12 letter you read that upset you? I believe this site is not a joke and I for one like large labia and they don't have to be even and pink etc.etc. crinkle,puffy, uneven, dark in hue it does not matter. It is the Ladies womanhood that really counts. women Athletes who have to wear to days fashion may well chop there lips. Does it make them run or swim faster I don't know. But I would not like to have them( A hole in a piece of cheese) legs spread wide on my bed as I enter the room from the shower to start a love session.I believe I am not the only man who thinks this way. So take heart girl and wait a little longer before you decide and look at sites with Milfs and Grannies who love their long lipped pussies.