Labiplasty is performed on porn "stars" (gag me) to make the men look
bigger??? I never thought of it that way before! Where did you hear
or read that? It makes sense, sadly.
I have to question a man who thinks women "look gross" down there (what tact he posseses, as well!) Most men love how women look. Might he be gay? Maybe, maybe not, but you have to wonder about a guy who thinks and feels as he did.
Glad to hear you are feeling better about yourself.