You are still very, very young. You have lots of time. Don't let anyone pressure you into something you are not ready for. I have to tell you that most men will absolutely LOVE your larger labia. If you are ever with someone who doesn't, run for the nearest exit. Eventually, you will learn what a blessing those larger labia are, and come to truly appreciate the gift that they repressent. I would suggest that you check out the sister site to this one, where you will find women who are built like you, and who have come to truly realize how wonderful those labia are. Best wishes to you.