IsClitReally IT

SadButTrue

November 14, 2011

i have wat i wud term a smaller clit and have great difficulty orgasming
in face i mostly derive more pleasue from having my cervix pumped and penetration overall than just clitoral stimulation ( both at once is even better) cud this have anything to do wit the size of my clit?

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tempest_driver

November 17, 2011

SBT,

The belief that stimulation of the clit is necessary for orgasms comes primarily from an article from the radical feminist author Anne Koedt "The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm". In which it is correctly stated that the clitoris has no other purpose than sexual enjoyment, but in which she also incorrectly states  that all other forms of orgasm are merely extensions of the clitoral orgasm and are thus myths perpetuated by the men of the world in some chauvinistic conspiracy to keep from being deemed obsolete by women.

Many other experts have stated however, and I can attest to this, that orgasm can be achieved through stimulation of the clit, labia, vagina, anus, and many other places on the body, as well as through purely visual stimulation without any physical stimulation whatever.

If you're built in such a way that clitoral stimulation can be a challenge it is not surprising that you get more pleasure from vaginal stimulation, and if you've had a satisfying sex life so far I would'nt let that bother me too much.

And since you've always enjoyed vaginal stimulation more than clitoral, I've included a link to a chat of areas in the vagina that are currently known to be extra sensitive to stimulation.

www.penissizedebate.com/page17_female-orgasm.htm

XOXO t_d

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