KT
November 13, 2011
I posted here sometime ago (# 2698) and I received just the kind of support I needed, so thanks to you all for that! Now I have a different problem. When I posted, I had just turned 18 and was finishing up high school. I'm now newly 20, and in my second year of college; I've lost weight since last year but boy, did that freshman 15 get me! So my question is, what about girls who are big all around? I went from a US dress size 6/8 to a 12/14. My legs at least gained weight that is pretty much all muscle, but as someone I know recently snidely commented, "Muscle or fat, big is still big." I've got DD breasts and a small waist that I used to think could make up for my less than desirable labia, but since I've gained weight I sort of feel as if I'm back at square one. Any advice/encouragement would mean the absolute WORLD to me, thank you :]
Antony
November 14, 2011
There is nothing wrong with muscular legs and they look very fetching
on a fine strapping lass ! I have a pair myself due to martial arts
and hill walking !
Many men, myself included, like athletic
looking women, so it definately is not a turn off ! X
Johnylips
November 14, 2011
KT:
First step from my perspective is not to refer to your
labia as "less than desirable." If you believe something about
you is unattractive, others may be more inclined to agree. I'm
sure you're aware that there are plenty of men that would find them
very, very desirable. Never forget it! Read posts 1 -
3524 if you need a refresher. ;)
Along the same vein,
I'd say the second step is to decide either to be happy about your
body as it is or do something to change those things you can.
Change is not so tough if you're committed. A little more
difficult is learning to accept those things you cannot change.
It is an art. Time and patience are the keys.
If
you believe you need to lose weight, I've had remarkable success by
limiting consumption of wheat and other insulin-producing foods.
I know I've said it before around here so forgive the
redundancy. Feel free to email me and I'll happily refer you to
some resources. Not a sales pitch by the way -- just sharing
what worked for me. These days I'm wearing pants that didn't
have contact with my ass for ten years. It's a beautiful thing.
J
tempest_driver
November 14, 2011
KT,
It sounds like you've developed from a slender teenager
into a voluptuous sexy young woman. I think your acquaintance really
let their ignorance show.
There is quite a difference
between muscle and fat and it seems that a lot of your increase in
size and weight is muscle. What you've described is a classic
hourglass figure that will get you noticed a lot more than your
previous size 6/8. If you doubt that. marilyn Monroe was not a size
6, she was a size 14.
You sound sexy as hell. If you ever
decide to show off, I'll happily look.
XOXO t_d
Eric
November 14, 2011
KT,
Damn, I remember that post!
So yeah, like
Tempest said, it sounds like your body is just developing more, and
getting stronger/sexier.
I have to say, but my girlfriend is
a size 6, and she's a "thick" little thing, because her muscles are
muscular, and she's got a slim waist, and tight abs -- so looks can
be deceiving.
Pay no mind to the person who said: "big is
big" -- that's just retarded.
Muscular is sexy. . .I'm one
of the guys that finds that attractive, as do many other guys.
Do you know how good it is for me when she wraps her muscular
little legs (she's only 5'3" compared to me being 6'0") around my
head when I'm licking her pussy??!?
Or how it feels when I
grab on to them when we have sex?!?
It drives me batty. .
.please do not pay attention to your friends, and the obvious bad
information they're giving you.
Just stay muscular if you
like being that way, and work on making yourself feel better.
If you want a real opinion, send me a picture of your body fully
clothed from the neck down, and then without clothes from the neck
down, and I'll give you my honest opinion.
Include your face
if you want -- I know some women have been funny about that in the
past, but if you're okay with it, I won't share unless you give me
permission, and I will definitely give you my honest opinion. =0)
- Eric
Erika
November 27, 2011
Like my mother has always told me, "A man needs something to grab
onto!"
There's nothing wrong with muscular legs. I have
thick thighs, toned legs, and a firm butt. I'm 5'3" with measurements
34"-chest 27"-waist and 38" hips, and weigh 125 ( a good 7-10lbs is
muscle). My dress size is a 4/6. A little curve never hurts, but it
always helps!
Why, whenever I travel through public
transportation and wear a leg baring outfit the guys always whisper
about them. One stranger said something along the lines of, "strong
legs means more fun in the bedroom." It made me blush a bit but at
the same time I had to pat myself on the back. Even women admire
them.
The average woman is your current size. The model size
( 00-0) isn't quite attractive with bones sticking out and hollow
cheeks. A woman is supposed to have some meat-plump hips and a nice
sway for bearing children whether it's fat or muscle. Men are very
visual creatures and you'll definitely reel them in with those
knockers and physique.
All that matters is that YOU'RE happy
with your body image.
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