Sophie,
Definitely, please, tell this man what you'd like
him to do.
Sex is a natural act, being good at it takes a
bit of effort for most people. And the key to becoming a great lover
and having an enjoyable sex life is communication. Neither of you
will know what feels good to the other without it. If what he's doing
feels good, tell him. If you don't like what he's doing, gently steer
him to a better way to do it, or to something else.
He
doesn't have to have a labia fetish to play with yours, he's already
going down on you, and that's a good start. He just needs to know you
like it, and a desire to be good at going down. He probably believes,
like lots of guys do when they first start eating pussy, that the
clit is all you need to know about. When we start we don't have any
idea about the inner or outer labia, the pee hole, the asshole, the
hood, the taint, or the pussy hole. It's all about the clit. And most
of us probably do it all wrong.
Next time you're with him,
point out how wet he's making you, and how swollen and big and puffy
your pussy lips are because of him. Then ask him to lick and suck on
your labia. Then when he does, let him know how good it feels.
From there, I encourage both of you to spend a long, long time
exploring each orher's bodies finding all the places on each others'
bodies, and your own, that are fun to play with.
Have fun
t_d