Cant accept my labia as they are

Frustrated, you saying that your pussy lips are larger then any picture you have seen on this site turns me on so much just thinking about. Wish I was about to see them for myself and enjoy them. I'm sure you have beautiful breats as well. If you feel up to it send me a picture so I can see these beautiful lips you have.

I don't wanta seem like some pervert.  But, send me a pic ... I'll try to give you some comfort.  Even thought they may be asymetrical ... they your labia sound quite delightful.

Frustrated; you say that you would like to get plastic surgery but this feels the "wrong thing to do", so fortunately you must feel deep down that your natural endowments are part of you and should not be artificially tampered with.
There is no need to compare yourself with others, I'm sure many of the women on this site thought they were "abnormal" until they learned that other sexy people enjoyed them, and I'm sure your breasts are perfectly fine - nothing that a bit of tender caressing would'nt sort out anyway !
Yes, it is possible to accept & love a "body part" as it is part of you, probably the best start is just to start talking about it with people who appreciate it..hope to hear more from you and your voyage of discovery. X

Frustrated,

Your labia sound beautiful. At some point your self image has suffered greatly and this is a real shame.  

Please stay and talk to us, we want to help. Whatever has happened to you, you're amongst friends now. Please give us a chance, Surgery may seem like a solution, but if I'm right, we have to heal you on the inside, Labiaplasty won't improve your self image, all it'll do is mutilate your labia.

Sound pretty much like me.
I have one long and one short labia. (Very big difference) And my breasts look horrible. (Not that they are small, it's not the problem, it's the shape and everything.) I know the feeling. I think everyone here looks so pretty and sexy.
I fight the same fight with the view upon my pussy and breasts (sex is a major issue for me), and some days it works better and some days, well, it doesn't. I am with you, and try reading as many letters here as possible. I have gotten very much help from this site! Hope you feel the same.

Frustrated:
Is it possible? I think if you read some of the letters here you will see it IS very possible. And it is a wonderful journey to that point.
There was a post here a while ago from Ann... and she stated a real truth from a woman's point of view: you are unable to see how beautiful your pussy is BECAUSE it is your pussy. Get an objective opinion from a guy (or gal if that is your preference).

Surgery is an option to consider if you have severe physical problems with your labia. Right now it seems like your main problem is your self image. That can be changed.
Because from your description you have a perfectly normal attractive pussy.
As a suggestion, why not post pictures to this site: www.ratemynaughty.com/submit-image/
If you want, afterward you can post the links here to share with us but you don't have to. Trust me, you have turned on a lot of folks by saying your lips are bigger than any others on this site!  

Somegirl:
Glad to see your posts and your progress! Takes time, so keep on updating us here.

Hi Fustrated

Welcome to the site. The women you see on this site are all models who've had the benefit of great photography, accessories, locations and Photoshop, so it's unrealistic of any of us to compare ourselves to them as they are here to look pretty and sexy for our delectation. Inspired by this site, I tried taking pics of my pussy (petals open) on my phone and the pics were horrible! I thought eugh! is that what I look like down there? Suffice to say, I deleted them pronto. And I've been told I've got a pretty pussy...
 
I've also got small boobs which I used to wish were bigger. Now I see them as part of who I am. I still sometimes wish they were bigger but not as often as I used to. I also used to obsess about the size of my thighs   really obsess. I would compare everyone elses to mine and hated when I sat down as they would spread out and look even bigger. And I'm considered thin/slim. But that's what working in the fashion industry does to you.  

Wishing you are something else takes up a lot of negative energy, energy you can expend more positively on other things. And people pick up on positive vibes. It takes time and self-acceptance to learn to love a body part you're not happy with. My confidence has increased the older I've become. Sometimes I have a speed wobble, when I see a positive reaction to someone with 36DDs or read something negative in the papers about 'flat chests' being less feminine and I'm back to square one again but only for a moment. So learn to love your asymmetric labia and your breasts, as they are what make you, you.

First of all. I don't think that ugly breasts exist. I'm a woman and I love all breasts. Big, little, pert or saggy, I think they're all fantastic. I imagine that most men feel this way too. What's not to love about boobs?!  

Secondly, the inner labia lips that I've seen where one lip is way longer than the other one, I find to be absolutely charming. Fascinating. Beautiful.  

You don't need to be frustrated.  Your body is certainly fine just the way it is.