Happy at last
February 7, 2006
I just wanted to thank you for this site.
I also have large vagina lips and it has always been a big concern of mine. I always thought i was abnormal and even used to refuse to have sex or allow any one to touch/see me because i felt so sickened and ashamed of my body. It took me months to allow my ex-boyfriend to see my body as i was self conscious about it and it was ages before we actually had sex, he kept telling me that i was completely normal but i just didnt feel it because of all the images in boys magazines etc. I was even desperate for surgery but was even too ashamed to allow a doctor to see me naked as i thought they'd think i was a freak.
I am still not completely happy with my body and unfortunately still get a sickness feeling and embarassement everytime i see myself naked because my body does not live up to what society classes as 'normal', but your site has helped me a lot in coming to terms with my feelings.
I hear people talking about girls large vagina lips and the things they say are often negative and critical which makes me cringe with embarassment, but you have made me realise that those are just opinions from people who are not even worth listening to.
I do not have a boyfriend at present and i know it is going to be awkward for me to allow another person to see me naked because of my body issues but your site has helped me realise i am not wierd and lots of girls have similar vaginas to me and are proud of it. Thank you so much! And thank you to the people who have written in praising large vaginas your all great!
Dear Happy at last,
You are making big progress towards your self-acceptance, so please continue making good on it. Whenever you look at your vulva do it with tenderness and desire. And don't hide it from yourself. Explore it, touch it and play with it. Use a mirror and take on some sexy poses like the ones in the photos. You'll be proud of your vulva in no time and it will make you feel so sexy that you will want to show it to your next guy!