How does a pussy normally feels when you put your finger in it?

Hello Ann,  

I'm going to take the long way around in answering your question, because sometimes knowing the reason for the answer is as important as the answer itself. I apologize ahead of time if I'm telling you a lot of stuff you already know.

The vaginal walls are made of a mucous membrane, which is constantly producing mucous, usually at a fairly slow rate, which increases at certain times such as sexual arousal, and which moves out toward your vaginal opening as it is replaced with fresh mucous.

The vagina is also a ecosystem, with its own environment, and its own microorganisms living in it. In this case the environment is warm, moist, dark, and slightly acidic, and the microorganisms are yeast.

Excessive or improper cleaning can upset this ecosystem causing a yeast overgrowth, commonly known as a yeast infection. Shortly after my wife and I were married, she had a series of these yeast infections, which kept reoccuring until she stopped using douches, she hasn't used them for more than 15 years, has never had another one of these infections, and has never had what I consider to be an unpleasant smell or taste.

It is perfectly normal for the mucous in your vagina to thicken as it nears your vaginal opening especially if you've gone a few days without a good cum. It is even normal for it to become slightly pasty as it carries dead yeast cells out of you. Incidentally, it has been proven that being aroused often without having an orgasm can also cause a yeast infection, so ladies, masturbate, and do it often. It's good for you.

You may notice that you have a slight smell from time to time, and this is also normal. In fact, this smell carries the phermones women used to rely on to attract a mate when we still lived in caves, and I personally find the smell arousing.  

As long as you don't smell bad....Musky=good....foul odor=bad, and as long as your discharge is very light and slightly pasty, and does not resemble what we in the states call cottage cheese, but you may just call card, your pussy is perfectly normal and healthy. Bad smell and heavy discharge means you probably want to talk to a doctor.

Hi Tempest

Thank you for the long and really informative letter:-) I didn't really know these things. I think my pussy is all normal, because the slight smell from there is not a bad smell or anything (I'm just not so used to it so I guess it takes some time for me to get used to). It is pasty but it's not like cottage cheese because it is not lumpy or anything. It is white. Is that normal?
I don't understand the words musky and foul odor. Can you give examples or describe it further?
So when you guys finger your ladies, do you expect mucous?

I'm glad I was able to help.

I would say that as long as the discharge is light, smooth, and white...ish. Because it occurs to me that it could even be slightly off-white, that it is normal.

As far as the difference between musky and foul, wow, I thought my reference to cottage cheese would be the part that may be confusing. I really had to think about this one because although they are terms I've always used, and understood, I've never actually had to explain them, does that make any sense?

Musky would probably be best described as the natural smell or taste of a healthy body. It may be shocking at first. It may even take some getting used to, but it is not entirely offensive. I would say that if I go down on my wife before our evening shower that she has a musky scent and and taste. A little tang at first, followed by lots of YUM! By comparison I would say that your boyfriend's cock and balls would have a musky smell and taste if you went down on him before he showered. To be sure, you and he would have a different smell and taste, but both could be described as musky.

Foul would best be described as something that simply offends any one of your five senses. This is really something that's subjective. but for me to apply that to a pussy, I guess it would have to smell obviously, fishy, or stink like an open sewer. This usually happens when a woman has an infection, or is otherwise not well. And yes, they do sometimes smell like that. Yes, I do know this from experience. And no, I did not fuck that, a man would be stupid to fuck a pussy he can't even get close enough to eat.

I do want to add here that the initial tangy taste that my wife has at times is from that yeasty discharge collecting deep in the folds of her pussy. Although I love it, it's not for everyone. This is natural, it has nothing to do with your hygiene. If your boyfriend doesn't share my passion for this, it is easy to remove by wiping around and between your labia with a damp cloth.

It is also likely that your boyfriend may react to the new you, this will most likely be because he is so used to the old you. Try not to be offended, give him time to adjust, and I think he will discover that he likes this more.  

Your pussy sounds perfectly normal to me, you shouldn't really need to clean any more than the normal soap and water around and between the labia for general hygiene thing. I know that lots of women like to give themselves a good, thorough cleaning after their menses, but even this is not really necessary.

Ann,

Interesting to read your letter.  

Recently my wife had something similar as you discussed. I noticed it a few weeks ago after she'd come back from a weekend at a girlfriend's house where her high school friends had a little get together informal party amongst just themselves, or so I presumed.

We went to bed an hour or so after she got back, and I couldn't believe how slick she was, so I asked her if she'd fucked somebody just before leaving her girlfriend's for the 100 mile trip home. I thought she was going to heave me off the bed, she was so indignant that I thought she would lie to me about what she'd been doing for the weekend. But she was right that it wasn't another man's cum (not that I cared), she explained to me it sometimes happens near her monthly, but not very often, so when I went down on her I could definitely tell it was not another man's cum, wrong odor. Nothing tasted any different, maybe a tad bit stronger, however that made it all the better.

She has great enhanced pussy lips, can't keep my mouth off them, I like them all the more soon after she's fucked somebody, I enjoy slipping & sliding in & out of a vagina like that.

Ann,

Yeah, I think it's natural. . .think about it. . .what did people do before they could wash inside like that??

Cavemen and Cavewomen??

From my understanding the vagina cleans itself out automatically, and there is no need to wash inside of it.

Just my two cents. . .

Haha! Cavewomen and Cavemen!

Nah, I don't think it's good for the natural balance to wash inside. I just wash the "outside", showering the pussylips, clit and so on, yeah, the "outside." (And the shower-part can be really sweet, so to speak!) Lol, don't know how to explain this in english. The vagina really does clean itself inside, as long as you keep a good hygiene. (Spelling is bad, haha) It shouldn't be a problem, really.

Like the other posters have said, you shouldn't really have to wash the inside of your vagina as it's self-cleaning. Vaginal lubricant can be different colours and textures. I get wet very easily and often have to wear pantie liners, so I don't end up with panty gussets like cardboard! So to the guys on this site that often suggest that we go commando   sometimes it's not that practical for us free-flowing ladies.  
I have noticed three types of discharge, none of them smell bad.
There's the everyday discharge which is opaque and dries whitish on dark underwear.  
When I get turned on, the texture becomes more slippery and mucus-sy (sorry if this sounds disgusting), sometimes a little jelly-like in texture and appearance.  
Then, if I'm penetrated deeply there's an off-white discharge that trickles out like cum.  

So I think the vagina is more than capable of looking after itself.

Oyster,
Not disgusting at all - quite the opposite in fact...

Oyster (I like the symbolism) that was an extremely pleasant read...

I still fail to see why you cannot go commando. Particularly in a mini-skirt. When you're extremely aroused. Well, I'll just have to keep thinking about it and see if I can come up with a reason.

Hello Oyster:

Great name....

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