18 years old, and self conscious

Stephanie,

You said that your partner about your pussy, and though you haven't said as much, I'm inclined to think that he's said that he likes it. I have a novel suggestion for you. BELIEVE HIM. If you can't trust him to answer a question honestly, then you probably shouldn't be having sex with him.

Or you can look at it like this, guys are very visual, and very protective of their cocks. If he's seen her, and he still wants to fuck her, he can't be too repulsed her.

XOXOXOXO t_d

hi stephanie !

accept yourself.. and enjoy. my lips and clit are big too and oh my.. it took me AGES to accept myself.. i felt.. something was wrong with me.  

i once had a bf and whilst we were having sex he said.. with lots of pleasure in his voice.. oh.. i can feel you.. you are all swollen and hot.. to be honest.. at that time i did not really know what to make of it.. but i think now - and perhaps some men would like to tell me if i am right or wrong - that men really enjoy this feeling of having their cock caressed and massaged by big, swollen pussylips.  

so i have a feeling.... your partner is ENJOYING it.. so should you!  

have fun ! xoxox jalapeno :)

But then again, what if he's just trying to get some. UGH. But it's not even if he's okay with what I look like down there. I worry so much about what I look like, and it's hard to think anyone could find me attractive. I get told that im cute, hot, beautiful, sexy, etc all the time, but its hard for me to believe so myself.

Stephanie,

I see the point you're making. To really be helpful we may need some more information.

Were these guys one night stands or were you in a relationship?

At whatpoint did you ask what they thought?

How did you ask?

how did they answer?

Did they come back for more?

I know these questions are a little personal, but trust me, the answers you give will tell me if you're right, or if I am.

Hi Steph.
After looking at all the beauties on this site and seeing how men and women love the labia, I am curious how you still feel self conscious about your self. Your still young and you should be confident about your body and what god gave you.
All of my friends find the extra folds you have very attractive, and you should too. Dont worry about a thing, your one of the lucky ones

Hi Stephanie  
"...But then again, what if he's just trying to get some..."

News flash - you just described every guy on the planet...
But - that doesn't mean that he doesn't like you!

It's like that saying - 'just because you're paranoid, doesn't
mean that they're not out to get you.'

Guys LIKE 'getting some', & they quite often like the person
they're 'getting some' from - the 2 things are NOT MUTUALLY
EXCLUSIVE.

I'd SO love for women to believe that they are beautiful,
& that guys dig their big lips & clits. Unfortunately a lot
of modern society is built on lies & cynisim, guys & girls buy
into it in whatever form, & you start believing what you  
see on tv about labiaplasty...
(Hey - just on the opposite side - I'd like guys to believe  
that their penis isn't too small...) (We all have issues,  
but that doesn't make them TRUE...)

Ok, so big leap there, but at some point in time humans are
going to have to start trusting & believing again...

...there isn't anything wrong with you & your boyfriend  
actually likes you...
So do we, even when we rant and rave...

I wish I could show you somehow, but it's something you have  
to learn for yourself, as much as I'd like to make it go away  
for you...

Stephanie,

I wouldn't really read to far into it. . .

I mean sure he could be telling you that because he's trying "to get some" as you put it.

But then, I think that could be an indicator that he wants YOUR pussy, which suggests that he LIKES your pussy.

I mean think about it. . .why would he tell YOU that he likes your pussy, instead of the next girl he has sex with (maybe he tells her that too)??

But I have imagine that regardless of the reason, it is a definite indicator that he likes your pussy -- otherwise he wouldn't be "trying to get some" in the first place after he sees your pussy.

In the end, don't put too much stock in what guys tell you about your pussy -- if they lick it right, and they stick it right and make you cum, that's usually a safe indication that they actually like and enjoy your pussy. =0)

The first time I had sex was with some one that has really big labia.  We are no longer together, but I can honestly tell you that, after her, all others are weighed and found wanting.  Nothing compares to large labia.  From oral to penetration it is just WOW.