I'm confused.

Ana

January 20, 2006

I am only 16 years old but I have been uncomfortable with my labias ever since 13.  
I am very insecure about them and have contacted many plastic surgeons about the labia minora reduction and am considering getting one when I am 18. This site has helped me a little but I'm still embarassed. I have a boyfriend and we have been wanting to have sex and I would really like to but I am so afraid of his reaction. I don't want him to laugh and think i'm abnormal. Are you sure that men like large labias? Also, does only one person run this website? Are you a man? If so, what is your opinion about women with large labias? Obviously you like them but is there any explanation or anything which will make me feel the least bit better?
thanks<33

Dear Ana,

To answer some of your questions: Yes, I'm sure men like large labia. Not all men, but plenty. Second, yes only one person—me—runs this site, and I'm a man. And you would like to know my opinion about women with large labia? I ADORE THEM! For an explanation, well... just read my responses to all the other letters here.

Teenagers your age are often confused about their sexuality. It damn sucks, but that's just part of growing up. Here is a letter of another confused girl like you. I strongly urged her to wait at least until her early twenties before making such a drastic decision. Please don't rush into a surgery you might regret one day!

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